ok so heres my situation. see i've been in a relationship with my bf for about 1 year. And i feel like hes ignoreing me now =[ and i feel like i'm starting to not like him no more cause of that..but i don't know is it me...Ehn i feel like im having a crush on somebody else which is my bf's friend! if i break up with him i kind of feel guilty because its probally my emotions and hes very nice and he cares a lot about me. its just that lately hes been doing that. and whenever i ask him whats rong..he always saids nothing. he never been like this ever since i was with him. =\i dont know what to do!! please help me and give me advise
A. Check if he's doing things differently... changing up his routine... going out more... cuz he could be cheating... B. Does his friend know your feeling him.. or have you ever really gotten to know the guy... Either way I don't think you should be too quick to try and get with his friend... cuz for one it would be pretty messed up if your bf didn't do anything wrong and you end up with his friend. and 2nd his friend may not be the guy you envisioned.. so best thing to do now is find out what's up with your bf. maybe he's going thru somethin or somethin... And the other IF is he could be cheating... then in that case... best revenge would be to get with the friend.
i think you should follow him and see what he's up too. cuz bf and guys, you never know what could be fishy about them. or sometimes he might like another girl, so then he doesn't want to talk to you as much and just ignore you. or one good thing you could do is, try to test his emotions if he still likes you or not. cuz if you try and do something that he likes or something that will suit his interest, and through all that if he decided to talk to you or pay attention about you. then he still likes you. if nothing seems to work and it fails to do it, just hang out with his friend and talk to him more. so then, if he likes you also. you could hook out with him instead of your bf. -flow
Don't hook up with the friend unless you know for sure he the right the guy for you... or if your BF is up to no good... Another thing you can try... and call him over... then get butt-nekkid... and when he opens the door, surprise him!!!! if he ain't giving any of that attention.. then he is def. cheating...
relationships don't stay passionate forever... some ppl "evolve" into the next stage after a few months... they don't need to b with each other 24/7 but still love n trust each other... if ur not happy in the relationship or if ur sure u don't love ur bf then get out... don't waste time... coz there're millions of nice guys out there... u don't b dating all of them... give him the chance of being nice to another girl that appreciates him more... as for his fds... well... after u break up with ur bf u can talk to him more n find out how he feels abt u...
damn for someone who's always boastin about their bf... i'm surprised to tellin' her to kick him to that curb that quickly. You know you might be like titi's friend... Maybe there's nothing wrong with your BF but you're just demanding or not feelin' him anymore and feel the need to cheat.... but whatever happens, happens... so hope yall work it out.
haha... i don't boast abt my bf aight?? i just mention him alot anyway i do that coz i have feelings for him... if there were no feelings i'd wipe my butt n leave... coz being with someone u don't like is a torment... even if he's a nice guy... and a nice guy deserves a girl that likes him back
yup i got to know the friend. like when me and my bf use to go to places he sometimes tags along.. well that was like so long ago.. yeah i thought about following him before but then i felt like he needed his "privacy" and all that so i dont think i should do that.. haha x] thanks for the advise but i dont think i'll do that! yeh i thought about that before but probally make him think wrong like i want to break up with him. Because some of my friends experienced that with their bf. Mostly the ending for their relationship is breaking up..and i don't want that to happen unless he is really cheating on me. yeah i know about the "evolving" into the next stage... but i assumed it would be like between 3-5 months because thats what usually happens with my ex's..well thanks for your advise anyways!
yea I know you like my idea right? just too chicken to pull it off.. -lol. yea so since you said you only see his friend a few times and that was awhile ago... who knows what he's like by now. And if you decided to follow your bf. then there really isn't any trust left in the relationship. And uhh.. forgot what i was gonna say -lol. But what are you planning to do?
haha lol well i had a little talk with him a while couple days ago.. he said his family issue is bothering him so he didnt feel like talking to me about it cause he didnt want me to worry. so everythings quite set about my situation! oh yeah thanks for all of you who gave me advises! -rockon haha x]
ahh! -sorc thas good to hear... yea i figured it was either cheating or family troubles -lol too predictable... but glad yall worked it out. And good thing you didn't rush into the friend thing... or else that woulda really sucked for him... -whistle -cool2 -whistle
now! babesteroxox33 and her bf lives happily ever after......... until babesteroxox33 got hit by a park car she dies .... her bf crys and i point and laugh -tongue2 ~The EnD~
Unless he's going through some mid life crissis I'm going to say he's just not interested anymore. OR he's taking you for granted. So it seems like you two need to have a talk.
