Help! need advice!

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by blkperc, Oct 11, 2006.

  1. blkperc

    blkperc Well-Known Member

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    I really like this girl at my skool but the only thing is that shes in grade 9 and i'm in grade 10, and the only time i see her is in the hallways. I'm really shy and i dont kno how wat to do. so please, i need help its been more than a month seein her and i havent even talk to her yet. its not natural for me to talk to a girl. any advice would b great.-unsure
     
  2. hahaha... the best thing would b start talking to her... walk up to her n ask her for the time or something... n after that every time u c her u can give her a smile or a nod... n then u can start saying hello n start talking to her... this seems to b a pretty natural way to start talking to a girl...
     
  3. blkperc

    blkperc Well-Known Member

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    i think thats a really good advice but like i dont want her to think that im stalkin her or sumthin. do u think she'll feel weird if i start talkin to her cause she doesnt really kno me and think im a total stranger?

    thnx
     
  4. u guys go to the same school right?? so ur bound to run into her sometime... n if i don't have a watch or a phone with me i'd just walk up to anyone n ask them for the time... no biggie

    i don't mean u go up to her n say hi every 5min... it's like today u might go up to her n ask her for the time... n then for the following 3 days u might run into her once or twice a day so every time u c her u just give her a smile n a nod...

    n may b a couple of days later when u run into her in the hall way u can start saying "hi... how r u today" n start chatting away... that doesn't sound like stalking
     
  5. blkperc

    blkperc Well-Known Member

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    LOL bout the sayin hi every 5min, yeh ill try it out and see wat happen. just hope it works.:D... i'll let u kno if i need anythin else.

    THNX Dawn ur the best!-cool
     
  6. does she even know you exist? ever jus smile at her?


    go up to her and go... hey I've been noticing you walking these hallways all the time... can I take you out for some Jamba Juice sometime...?? -cool2
     
  7. she doesn't... that's y u told him to go up to her n ask her for the time or something to let her know that he exists...
     
  8. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    find out who knows her and get some info about her..then meet up with her at lunch or somethin...no big deal a gr10 likin a gr9..she bettter b worth it..u don't wanna waste ur time
     
  9. wguan_86

    wguan_86 Well-Known Member

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    how often are grad 9 girls worthyour time.. just ask yourself .,. all the ladies how mature were you when you were lik 14?
     
  10. blkperc

    blkperc Well-Known Member

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    yeh thats really true, i dont wanna waste my time but shes worth it....LOL....i did ask a friend to find out wats her name cause my friend is in the same class as her so far i only got her name thats all.
     
  11. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    if u're reallly desperate go to guidence and get a class with her lol..don't worry..ur time will come..eventually u'll konw her..jsut b patient..but nothing will happen if u don't do anything
     
  12. just make sure you dont have a watch on when youre asking... -lol

    does she have a locker in the hallway? if she does... pull up to it and start talking to her..
     
  13. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    ^ go to her locker and jam it..then when u see her trying to open her locker..u open it for her ;) .. slick ehhh
     
  14. lol not even.. cuz you cant open it.. you'll look like a dumbass... which im sure has happend to you plenty of times..


    first off... grad10 ayy... what exactly is it that you like about the girl?
     
  15. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    he ain't gonna tell u..its his girl..he don't want u to fall for her too lol..or else pa beef
     
  16. turbogor

    turbogor Well-Known Member

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    lol do you really like the girl..? =/ or just the looks haha
    cause since you are a year ahead of her.. you wouldn't really have any idea how she is like... unless of couse you *stalk* her or have had a class with her.... but you said you don't/don't want to
    so ... yeah...
     
  17. -lol dun pick on the boi... he's shy ma... not as outgoing as u r...
     
  18. who knows that this guys like...
     
  19. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    this is love at first site for him
     
  20. blkperc

    blkperc Well-Known Member

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    yeh it is love at first sight 4 me......LOL:D

    any other advice r welcome

    thnx