My girlfriend just told me that I've been a jerk to her for the past two weeks but didn't say anything cause she thought I knew, and I do. I bought her a $156 neckalace and her to forgive me. Though it then feels like a bribe. What should I do?
If you believe you're being a jerk, then stop. It'll do much more than $156. Why do so many people think that buying something expensive will make the girl happy anyways? If you want to give her something, give her something that will MEAN something to her. Does she have a favorite play? Buy tickets to that. Is there a place she's always wanted to go but never have? Take her there!
Hey worked for Kobe's Wife!! and she's pretty damn hot -lol. Anyways you seem to be in a pickle with your GF, Tao. So the reason you guys are talkin' is because she's mad at you and not that you guys are losin' interest in each other?? Or maybe she is just losing interest in you and there's all this tension buildin up... You've been with her for quite awhile now, so it's probably just nothin'. But damn... being with that girl for that long, I think you should re-evaluate what you want out the relationship and where ya wanna take it...
Well I care for her and she cares for me. Though I know I love her. And she told me she loves me. Well before we just don't talk much and today when I talked to her after I had the worst day I seeked comfort from my sweet heart. Though due to the times were we just sit there and talk and most of her answers are like sure, ok, I don't know, do what ever you want and such and such. and for the first time every I got mad at her. which is odd cause in three years of being together you'd think we'd fight or get mad at each other more then once. But I try to be rational and focus, while making sure anger doesn't cloud my judgement. but everyone has its limits and I blew up. thats when she told me I've been a jerk for the past two weeks. Though I don't know if I did or not but it someone's being a jerk they are either doing it on purpose or not knowing they were. but after thinking through it I'd most likely go back to what I do to always keep my head clear "walk to circle". What your out put now that you see the whole story? "Well kind of the whole story, I'd be writing an essay if I told you what happen in 3 years."
wow 3 years... and just an essay lol.. kiddin...hmm so she got mad at you for being mad at her -lol. To me it just seems like it's really nothing... maybe take her out and try to cheer her up. More likely this whole thing'll blow over in time... That does seem kinda odd how ya'll been together for 3 years and no fights... it usually makes the relationship much stronger.
Though there have been times we are about to get at each others throat or rather her clawing my eyes out, we always talk it through. Theres no point in yelling at each other if we can just talk it out. Though this is the first and Im just not sure what to do. Though I guess your right that I'd just be worrying about it. I'll just take her dancing to make it up to her and visit the Buddhist temple in Canada. Thanks for your input I feel better.
that's good to hear... maybe go on some spiritual ish and pray to the gods... you know what they say.. "by dut sun dor..." you know the rest. Maybe go get your guys fortune read... I dunno..
Though everyday I know that I tell her I love her and I listen to what she says. She often tells me not to be sorry when I have nothing to do with it. Lately I've been telling her I've been having alot of stress at school and for once in my life curse. She then said as I quote, "I can you your not happy cause your cussing." Though I never curse directly to her. Shes and affectionate person and I picture her as well an angel. When she gets upset with her father all I do is listen and hug her tightly. Till now I want to know what I did and why I did it. Taking her words in deeper mind, I try to become the person two weeks before this month, and so far.......she said Im back.
hmm seriously... I think your a bit whipped... You should take charge and be lil more assertive... yea ya love her n all.. but really if ya get too soft down the line... it could be trouble for ya...
right bad idea...-noclue ya know your girl sounds like the type that's a bit hard to please... or maybe ya tryin' to hard to make her happy -shrug
yea... maybe she turned into her real self... and that she's -evil.... and maybe cheating on you with other guys... or maybe it's all just crazy talk too -lol. but damn you shuold really think about what ya wanna do with the relationship... you already invested that much time into already... couple more years later.. and who knows what'll happen...
