He's not into you?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by bluebeme, Oct 4, 2009.

  1. bluebeme

    bluebeme Member

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    -what? is it that hard to get a man to marry you?i have been in this relationship for 3 years and had not hear no word or indication of marriage, does this mean he is not into you? or he just don't care for the long term?
     
  2. Flames

    Flames Out of Date User

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    :facepalm: Too early, try next year
     
  3. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    3 year is not that long depending on your age tho...
    But maybe he just doesn't think he's financially ready, or you can just talk about it with him... No big deal
     
  4. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    Doesnt necessary mean his not into you or doesnt plan for the future.

    Might mean he is financially insecure or doesnt want to rush things. Good Luck
     
  5. Dav

    Dav Well-Known Member

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    for some people, 3 years just isn't enough for marriage. i'd say you guys are on the right track though.
     
  6. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    some guys dont even wanna get married after 10 years... in what stage of life are u guys anyway? if u met him when ur 18 or 28 makes a HUGE difference... women expect too much from guys sometimes i guess.... talking to him might scare him but not talking to him might make u feel annoyed/impatient.... hmmm..... tough one.... i guess if i were u id just ask him what his future plans are
     
  7. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    mmm... without an age bracket this question is kinda pointless.

    If you've been dating a guy for 3 years since you were 15, you'd still only be 18, and that is, in my opinion way too young to get married.

    I won't even be considering marriage until im at least 26 years old and have a minimum of 200 thousand in my bank account. People might say age and numbers aren't important, but in my opinion, nothing could be more embarassing than getting married and then still living off your parents.
     
  8. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    ^ that's right .. your age makes a diff ...

    do you guys even share anything together .. bank acct, car, house, etc.??? those are some signs of long term potential .. if the guy doesn't even trust you with his wallet or whatever, then it's best to move on.
     
  9. YiPjE

    YiPjE Member

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    some men are just afraid of marriage
     
  10. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    u sound like u're at the right age of marriage (why else would u wanna get marry if ure only 20 lol, or maybe u just wanna get marry at any age). what others said is so true, if a man doesnt have enough $$$$$ he wouldnt think of marriage.
     
  11. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member


    NOT true .. i had no money when i proposed .. lol

    every situation is different .. man doesn't want to commit is the root of the prob ..hey there is plenty of fishes in the sea .. right? .. lol ..
     
  12. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    NOT true .. :kekekegay: (there are always exceptions, and yea, every situation is different, cant say much)

    #3 is redic imo, & #9 is :wtf:
     
  13. rainboow

    rainboow Member

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    i dont think he dont say a word about marriage, means he is not into you.....
    3 years it is not a short time. he do care about u
     
  14. THF20

    THF20 is a Chinese

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    You could have a chat with him about this, surely it would work out fine...
     
  15. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    there is no exception. men use $$$ and all shitty excuses when they simply don't wanna commit. seriously, issues like $$ and whatever can be overcome together as a couple if they're for real.