Basically, I need some adive or pointers or just plain tell me what I can do. I liked this guy for like two years I guess, the first year I didn't really know him as he's cousins with this guy I know and I met him at a party, it was more like a crush because he's cute. But now...he goes to my college (I am from London, so I'm not sure what college is for other countries). And the time he's been here, I grew to like him more, I talk to him, we're like friends, as in we can sit and chat about stuff, have laughs, and we (as in myself, a few friends and him) go badminton once a week. I do little things like text him, creep up on him and cover his eyes, lean against him when I chat with him sometimes, smile and make a lot of eye contact... It's just I don't know what signs I should particularly look out for, and everyone KNOWS this boy is like absolutely dense and slow when it comes to hints and stuff... But I don't want to go straight to him and say "I like you..." because I think it'll scare him away... Any advice???-cry2
if this was a situation in the movies, then the girl and the guy will go to a party, and the girl starts making out with him. but since its not in the movies, that dude is simply blind to these things.
My life would be so much easier if girls just told me they liked me, instead of me having to do all the work. However, some guys are only in it for the 'chase' if you tell him, he might lose interest, but then I guess he really didn't like you anyway.
Yeah, probably, but thing is, I don't know if I should just give up completely on hope, or just wait and see how dense and oblivious he truely is... aiyy......isn't actually going up to someone and saying "by the way, i like you, what do you think?" is a bit sort of scary? On the recieving end, i mean, it makes you like "WOAH" kind of thing....
Sounds like u already give this guy a lot of hints and he didn't react yet. Did u feel any feed back from him at all? If not, my guess is he is not interest or he may has someone already. Just my .02
He comes over to me in my art class and compliments me a lot on my art work. We text each other occasionally. Uhm...when I go by, and I see him and he sees me, he smiles at me and nods or waves... I don't know...can't think of anything off da top of my head...lol
This is the 21st century, I would suggest you go forward and tell him straight out. There was a chinese saying something like " Sow Jow Gar How Mo Tank Thap" Sorry just trying to sound it out.
he's feeling you too, but i guess it takes you to make the first move since he's not willing to. Atleast there is feed back. JUST DO IT!!!!!!!!
if you don't try and go up to him then you'll never know if he feels the same way or not. from a guy's perspective i don't think its too freaky if a girl confessed to me about the way she feels, unless you're the stalker type anyways have you guys even gone out on a date or anything? just go up and say "hey are you free this weekend, wanna go catch a movie or have lunch together". shouldn't be hard since you know this dude pretty well
Do you two see each other outside of school? Does he do other stuff to you other then say Hi and Bye and stuff, if thats all he gives you then it doesn't seem like much or enough. You'll never know unless you tell him how you feel. he doesn't take hints very well does he. Well he needs a punch in the face (probably won't even see it coming, or wont know what hit him, lol) Then help him up and ask if he's alright, lol.
Sometimes, you just have to be blatant with guys. I got the sense that my bf liked me before we went out, but he never said anything, and I went crazy hinting that I liked him. After a couple of weeks, I couldn't stand it anymore and just asked him outright, "What are we???" Turned out okay, we've been dating over 2 1/2 years... *shrugs*
i'm a guy; and i'm flattered if a girl comes out and tell me that she likes me. having said that, (maybe it's my sickness) but at the back of my mind i don't treasure her as much. i appreciate the ones that i have to chase ... i guess the harder u get something, the more likely u'll appreciate it scenario? as for hinting him ... i have a girl that asked me out to movies and which I went as casual friend but it turns out she has a different agenda. anyways, u can lean over and laid your head on his shoulder / hold his arm. maybe give him a kiss at the end?
honestly i think your actions are already very obvious so he might not be into you, if he's not acting back
hmm, so i guess its a no hope situation unless i went up to him and said "hey, let's do something this weekend, or catch a movie?" lol. and my friends here all tell me I'll freak him out if i went up to him straightforwardly. lol. Yeah, we hang out like once a week, but in a group though.
You need some alone time with him. I agree with the movie thing. Ask him to a movie or something. Then go for dinner after or go for lunch before. try to spend the whole day with him if you can, if theres like something going on in your city (i.e. Festival of some sort......Thats all that comes to mind)
Haha, London and festivals....hmm....aiyaa a bit too late as chinese new year festival already went lol. I guess I can try the invite him out thing. kdotc-huniiii........when u say flash him, is that supposedly innocent as a phone flash, or are you suggesting other things? (like u always do, lol)
