I just started my job this week (sure some of you know) and things have been rather slow. Anyway, I got acquainted with some of my colleagues on Tuesday night at the bar. One of them really stood out .. she joined the firm early this year right after finishing grad school in December. We kinda kissed in parking lot and it was a nice one. For some reasons, I don't feel a bit guilty about it? I am married and still love my wife (I know that for sure). What is wrong with me? I have been thinking through it these past two days and still don't know why I did what I did on Wednesday. I didn't drink .. just chillin then so I wasn't drunk. Sigh .. emotions thing .. too confusing sometimes.
It's just your hormones going wild, just have sex or :wackit: and that feeling will go away headbang2
have sex with her, post the pictures on here, if you still don't feel bad you may have a problem, but atleast the rest of us will be amused.
lol the fact that you "claim" that you love your wife for sure but don't feel guilty is a negative sign. now i wont say what that implies, but dude, you're in quite the hell hole.
lol, i want to say that this post is very unhelpful but thinking about it he has a point hahaa! try it and see if you feel any guilt at all. well i was gona say that u don't love ur wife...... but i guess u think the opposite and i'm not gona argue otherwise. this is quite a puzzler... hm, has ur wife done this to u?..
Maybe you find something unique in her that your wife did not have. Maybe your wife did not give you enough sexual "satisfaction" that you want so that your "sex drive" force you to seek other mates that will fulfill what your "sex drive" is missing. It is not your fault. It is your sexual response/sexual drive that force you to do what you do. You cannot control it.
ur married... u love ur wife... u have a happy family... everything is steady and settled... but maybe something's missng?? something like passion?? u don't wanna hurt ur wife... u don't even wanna think abt leaving ur wife... but this girl from ur firm bring passion and excitement in ur life?? a lot of married couple becomes practical... u love that person but life gets a little dull... a litte boring... u love ur spouse like a family member but u no longer feel passionate abt that person... n sometimes they start to seek passion outside their marriage... i'm a girl... i think wot u did is very very very normal... n if i was ur wife i'd b ok with it as long as i don't find out hahahaha...
Clearly you don't need to be of exceptional intelligence to attend UCBerkeley. I'm pretty sure negiq's problem isn't solely located below the belt... I'd have to say only roughly 60% of a guy's actions are dictated by his penis. Perhaps this is a culmination of various personal, work and mental issues that have lead to a detached and dissatisfied view of reality. Every post you make seems to be laced with cynicism and a general sense of malaise. I wonder if it is that you have become self absorbed to the point where you have lost the will to care about the effects of your actions on others. Not trying to be critical, just analytical. Then again, i don't know you well enough to make any judgments based on your character and, from what i've read about your life on this forum, i think i prefer it that way.
i agree with fealess (i'm surprised too) not everything is about sex... however even if negiqboyz makes love to his wife every night i don't think his feelings to this girl would change... passion towards other women is totally different...
i don't think so... like have sex with ur hands... it's still the same no matter wot new moves u try... but then again i'm not a guy... i dunno wot it's like...
toys r different... toys won't cuddle u n whisper sweet nothing into ur ear after a sweaty workout -tongue2
i think it is kinda weird u dont feel guilty.... r u gonna do that kinda stuff again or go further =X oh my gosh.... thats so bad! kinda weird tho...how can u love someone n cheat on them n not feel bad? i mean ur not gonna feel guilty if ur wife finds out n u crush her heart? :( n i would mind very much if my bf/husband would do this (behind my back or if id find out) but yea...maybe u guys lack passion n ur looking for excitement in ur life... try n do more excited things with her...doesnt only have to be abt sex... maybe u guys can get away for a bit so it can boost up ur lovelife n dude...messing with ppl from work...lol... so not cool...that might haunt u for the rest of ur time there... u dont mess ard with ppl from wooork... thats gonna get u in trouble.... what if the chick goes all psycho n goes head over heels for u
Pretty messed up, right now I feel sorry for your wife. But as the saying goes, 'you reap what you sow'. Tell this girl your married, if you end up losing your wife over this person then youll know she will cheat on you and she will know you will cheat on her if the opportunity presented itself as you would both be untrustworthy. Is marriage just a certificate nowadays?
It's just a kiss.. perhaps you just wanted to reassure yourself that you "still got it." I mean as long as you still love your wife and isn't about to go crazy for the girl. EVERYONE goes on PA.. -fear
