I just want all the girls and ladies out there to know how guys could really be a jack A! and you should be carefull of what your man tells your next time. I had a boyfriend for 6 years and he cheated on me for 2. You must be asking... how could I be so dumb and not find out? Well maybe because I trust people too much. I thought I was having a happy relationship and all.. until one night his 2-year living together girlfriend called me up. Aparently she knew that he had a girlfriend but she didn't mind. And since I dont live with him, and SHE does, she is ok with thaT. You must be asking why did she called me right? Till today I have no idea why..(this happened 6 months back) but all I know was that, she could hide in the dark for the past 2 years and why suddenly she wants out? to be in the light? Well after fights and heart aches... We split up (ofcourse) but part of me didnt want to let go of this relationship, do you know how long is 6 years? I hated my ex and his girlfriend. now 6 months later... I found out that they are still living happily together.. but I didnt know that until she called me up to tell to stay away from her BOYFRIEND!!! shouldn't i have told her that 2 years + back? For the past 6 months, althought I have broke up with my ex, we still kept contact or atleast i wanted to... but after knowing this truth... I am so crushed now.. So I am telling you all the ladies out there... It did not happen to a girl happily in love for 6 months or 2 years... It happened to me...and someone I used to trust so much for the past 6 years To the woman out there who are boyfriend stealers... watch out for KARMA.. if u do not know what is that... check the dictionary... and I wonder if you have a conscience in u? And to all the innocent ladies.. you might have a good man there with you.. but woman nowadays are worst than any man! As for me.. I am surviving... well I keep telling myself.. it's better to happen now than to happen after marriage... right? and moreover... that WOMAN will have her karma coming soon... and I have a bright future infront of me... at least I know i am a soon to be Dr.. while she is just a measly advertising B*tch...
way to go girl ^^* I really admire you for being so brave and strong. I can't imagine how bad it still hurts you to even type that.... but like you said...you're going to be a doctor soon and as for her? WHO CARES. take care you =)
I'm proud of u that u survived this! Honestly, 6 years is a long time.. but it's all in the past right? You guys loved each other once.. but that's all in the past. I, myself, have had really bad experiences in the past. But I learn something each time. Don't let it get to u too much nowadays alright? =) Gd luck with becoming a doctor. I'm sure u'll find a hot doctor boyfriend!
I admire what you did leaving him is really the best thing. Remember you didn't lose anything valuable it jusy he don't deserve you. If he could do that to you he will do it again so just ignore him and tell his current girl friend this ok. Take Care all the best.
... well, that is why YOU need to be out there.. meet some girls.. save other girls' from cheating men.. -noclue
Lol! Philip, nice one -lol Hi Aishiteru welcome to the forum, I admire the courage in you - six years is a very long time and it must've been hard to move on. Forget about him cos you deserve a better man. Whatever comes around, goes around... Stay strong - you have our support, and goodluck with your career
I know how that goes... I had a live in girlfriend for 6yrs and 6months ago she cheated on me with a guy she met on the internet... She felt guilty so she told and we broke up because of that... I thought I could have trusted her... She always claims that I went out with other girls and cheated on her which never happened... and then a week later she had a new boyfriend... a guy she knew from junior high... well the guy always asked her out for last 2yrs and I didn't mind cause I trusted her... this guy played dumb and said he didn't know she had a bf... well next thing you know most of my friends who I knew for yrs stopped talking to me and claims that I'm the bad guy because I broke it off with her... and ppl who I thought were my closest friends all ended up on her side... and to make things worst was that was the week my grandmother just passed away...
I feel your pain, girl. My stupid ex's gf did the same f**king thing. She threaten me and told me to stay away from her bf. And it's funny that I broke up w/ him, and lost contact w/ him...and she still thinks that i'm trying to steal him away from her. I was like...OMG, he's not the only guy for me and there are tons of better guys out there. I'm glad you that you moved on...besides she knows that you are better than her, that's y she is being a b*tch toward you. N YES..KRAMA!! I can't wait until that day comes....then you can just sit back and enjoy the show....^_^
Thank you so much people for reading my thoughts and what i have to "release" out of me Have not checked this place out in ages.... All your supports made me feel so much better... Well, I am begining to feel better now... alot better hehe guess time really does help in everything. Thank you everyone
umm glad you feel better and moved on... too lazy to read the post over again.. -lol. but I'm happy for ya...
i'm glad ur feeling better now i was once like u... when ppl date it should b one on one... loyal and faithful to each other... but sadly the reality isn't like this... throughout ur life u'll hear lots n lots more stories of how men cheat on their wives... i know u must hate that girl who stole ur bf right now... but if ur ex was a good man do u think the would let this happen?? the girl called u up coz she's probably sick of sharing a man with another woman... u didn't know abt her existance for 2 years... so u had a happy relationship for 6 years in total... but she knew ur existance all along... can u imagine how she would feel when she sleeps with ur ex at night knowing that he'll b hugging n kissing u the next day?? and she lived with that for 2 years coz she loved ur man... i just hope if my future husband do cheat on me... just cover it up carefully so i don't have to find out... i hope u find a better guy
Wow !!! -shock never knew that can happen LOL gf telling the other gf to leave her man alone... welll gj u left him ! *Life Goes on* -rockon
