How do you compare yourself to others?

Discussion in 'The Rant Section' started by Lychee, Apr 5, 2007.

  1. Lychee

    Lychee Well-Known Member

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    To the people who constantly complain about their looks (you know who you are :p):

    When you look at yourself in the mirrors and think that you're fat or unattractive, are you comparing your features to models and celebrities or to other everyday people?

    Comparing yourself to models is just unrealistic and does nothing but dwindles your self-esteem. Hello? They are models because they have talents in the looks department.

    For instance, if I compared myself to Cecilia Cheung, of course I'm hideous. But if I compare myself to fellow classmates, I'm easily amongst one of the better looking persons in the room (not to sound too conceited). -sweat

    For realistic comparisons, I think it is better to compare yourself to others of your age group. People should not try to compare themselves too much to celebrities to the point that it becomes an unhealthy obsession. Any obsession can destroy you.
     
  2. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    lol...................go compare urself to a lychee =p
     
  3. ^thread breaker

    OT : ill compare to friends etc and i look ugly XD hey atleast im being honest :p
     
  4. Lychee

    Lychee Well-Known Member

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    I'd be one of the meatier, plumpier ones, which in the case of being a lychee, would constitute as attractive :D

    Oh, I'm sure you're not as ugly as you say. A lot of times you don't neccesarily have to have "perfect features" to be considered very hot, it might be charm or charisma or an aura that you possess. :)
     
  5. misenlai

    misenlai Well-Known Member

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    meatier? lol? i'm one of the bonier.. i guess
     
  6. ^aura? ur ar u on crack? ;) thnx for trying to cheer me up :p but i know what i am etc ;)
     
  7. leelee

    leelee Well-Known Member

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    i compare myself to doraemon. hes short stubby, big headed just like me
     
  8. ^doraemon is cute haha XD
     
  9. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    I dun.. i think its unrealistic to compare urself to others. You know you are better than some, and some are better than you in one way or another. So there reli isnt a pt to compare with others. I am just me. I rather compare myself with the past.. much more meaningful
     
  10. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    to busy with my own life to compare to others...
     
  11. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    everybody has their own flaws and imperfections..
     
  12. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    what..u mean u got a flaw...some of us are perfect...hhah....
     
  13. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Well, I know for a fact that there will be attributes that I don't score as high as others, but I try to get the best out of what I have :p

    And oh, average (height), average-chubby (I never get around that :p) and average (cuteness) describe me quite well ;) But I am good at being evil :p
     
  14. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    I compare me to myself. I like to put on random outfits, then see which one looks best.

    My mom always compares me to doctors, lawyers, guys in Korean dramas, guys in Taiwanese dramas, HK dramas, etc., but I'd say I look better than most of them.

    How would you rate yourself on a scale of 1-10?
     
  15. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Give me an example of a 10 and an 1 to you first. I need a reference.
     
  16. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    @ Fearless

    Perhaps I score a 6.5? 7 when wearing contacts? Maybe?
     
  17. above average is good :O