how do you get rid of a stalker!!

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Naoko, May 4, 2006.

  1. Naoko

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    i was in the mall and this guy kept following me hes so creepy!! everystore i went to he followed me EVEN victoria secret then he finally asked for my # i told him to stay away but he still followed me!!! ANNOYING
     
  2. chiehc87

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    call the police ..


    but the best method is:

    kick him in the crotch and run like the wind. very effective -bigsmile
     
  3. goo wak jai

    goo wak jai Well-Known Member

    hey how did u get rid of him in the end? Anyway if a stalker follows me, then i'll try going into a crowded place and lose him. If i don't then i will curse him, and run. I doubt the stalker can catch me, i'm a fast runner!
     
  4. W-inD

    W-inD Well-Known Member

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    yu should kik da guy in da balls:).. best method:D
     
  5. mystery

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    well if he was only stalking you while you were at the mall, then I don't see why you're still worrying.

    I have a more serious case. well, my friend does actually, and she's like freaking out. the guy who's stalking her looks like a sick pervert and he goes to her school. he's always making these racist comments and he thinks he's funny. rumor has it that once, a teacher caught him "pleasing himself" in the school's restroom. he's sooooooo sick! a few weeks ago, he told my friend that he liked her and asked her to go out with him. my friend told him that she doesn't want to be in a relationship, and now he's going around the school and spreading lies and bad rumors about her..he's also insulted her a few times. the weird thing is, he still stalks her every so often. he was also able to get her e-mail address and e-mails her almost everyday. it's crazzyy! we still have no idea how he got a hold of her e-mail address either. in his last e-mail, he said that he's signing up for the same classes as her so that they could be together. WTF?

    my friend's totally freaking out right now.
     
    #5 mystery, May 4, 2006
    Last edited: May 5, 2006
  6. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    LOL, yeah I guess you can do that.
     
  7. shy

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    A while back, I was reading in a magazine about this girl who was going out with some psychopath who did all the name calling & stuff. Just tell your friend to report to a teacher or counselor that this guy won't stop harrassiing her. That way, she'll have the chance of not being put in the same class as him.

    Another way to get out of this is for her to get her boys to beat him up, but I don't advise that she does this because he can choose to press charges on her.
     
  8. b-lee

    b-lee ǝʌıʇɔǝdsɹǝd ʇuǝɹǝɟɟıp ɐ

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    Sorry, I didn't know I was annoying you. -devil :p
     
  9. mystery

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    Yeah, she's planning to talk to a counselor soon.

    hahaha...is that how you normally get rid of the guys who stalk you? By telling your boys to beat them up? lol...kinda violent, but if all else fails....-lol
    maybe not beat him up, but just threaten him a little bit, you know? hahah
     
  10. ruckusinthahouse

    ruckusinthahouse Well-Known Member

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    Like Goo Wak Jai said, call the police. Do some Muay Thai on the wierdo next time. Stalkers are just plain dumb.
     
  11. 小小

    小小 (゚ー゚)(。_。)(゚ー゚)(。_。) afk

    Plastic surgey a possibility perhaps ??? -lol
     
  12. aquaman

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    oh my god....it is soooooo easy to turn a guy or girl off.....next time he follows you turn around and walk up to him and ask..."do you know where the restroom is, i think the diarrhea is leaking down my leg....nevermind i'm just going to take my sock off and wipe it off." then just calmly walk away and sit down somewhere and take off a sock and walk away until you can see him/her anymore.

    and why is it that younger girls like to say....kick him in the crotch.....but then you forget that he's crazy so...what if you kick him in the crotch and he punches you in the face.....you the initiator of the altercation will go to jail or juvenile hall (depending on your age) with a black eye on top of it....not a bright idea....

    then there's the have the boys beat him up thing.....so going by the creepy crazy reasoning of his behavior....you have him beat up and one day he waits till you're alone somewhere and MUAAAAAAAHAHAHAHA.....you're dead meat....cops is one way and there's the turn him off by saying or doing something stupid and he'll stop instantly and you won't have to worry about him ever again.... ;) hope that helps or makes any sense
     
  13. shanno

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    call the police, call your lawyer, move house, change school, tell your parents. do all of them
     
  14. Giniro

    Giniro Well-Known Member

    if me being stalk i just walk to police station
     
  15. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    make sure u have some pepperspray on u
     
  16. fcuk_it

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    well if he followed you jsut once and you hanvet seen him yet, you probably wont ever see him again. but if he all of a sudden pops up again everywhere you go, call the police and get a restraining order
     
  17. taichi_masta

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    If the guy was hot, he'd be sweet...lol
    Omg, this cute guy is signing up for all my classes just to be with me =P

    If it's a real problem, just call the cops next time he follows you! I'm sure the cops wouldn't mind having a talk with the guy to scare him off. The cops have nothing better to do anyway.
     
  18. eason41

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    get sum of ur guy frenz to get him to F*** off
     
  19. Me89

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    I agree... Just like kick his ass infront of everyone... That'd hurt his pride bad