how do you know if the person your with is losin interest?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Beamobaby, Apr 7, 2006.

  1. Beamobaby

    Beamobaby Well-Known Member

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  2. donkeyhit

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    when the person is avoiding u and aint talking to u lol
     
  3. jello

    jello Member

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    theres no real way to be sure, so just be honest and ask
     
  4. binks

    binks Member

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    comfirm ..
    when a person startin to avoid u ...

    example ... dont answer yr phone call, reply yr sms, hang out with u ... and many more pther reason
     
  5. cindiirella

    cindiirella Member

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    when a person just doesn't care won't returns your calls trys the best to avoid you and doesn't pay as much attention they did liek b4
     
  6. azn822

    azn822 Well-Known Member

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    when they do what these 3 people jus stated...
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    #6 azn822, Apr 16, 2006
    Last edited: Feb 7, 2011
  7. suijei

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    when their eyes wander while talking to you and mentions other people to change the subject. Or they give yes and no answers to avoid a conversation.
     
  8. NIOBE48

    NIOBE48 Member

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    when the person ignores you, dozes off when your talking, daydreams in front of you, and avoids you at all costs.
     
  9. AVANT

    AVANT Well-Known Member

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    There are plenty of signs to watch out for... some obvious, so not so... but they are there... If one has to ask the other, then that relationship is already over and the couple just haven't come to terms with the situation.
     
  10. KrossX

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    when they see you less. When they don't answer your phone call. When they get annoyed when you have a conversation witht them.
     
  11. fcuk_it

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    if you spontaneous pop up where they are and they didn't know before hand and they look as though they don't want to see you, then they probably lost interest. most ppl would be thrill for their SO to show up out of nowhere to see them.
     
  12. Tiramisu21

    Tiramisu21 Well-Known Member

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    - They don't reply back as often anymore.. like u'll notice a difference in this one for sure
    - Their answers tend to cut off the convo
    - They avoid you. They're not as happy when they see u. If u show up as a surprise, they can get mad at u. They just don't talk as much anymore.
    - Worse, they could always be talking away about someone else.

    Okay, in my opinion, I tend to "know" if someone has lost interest. I can feel it.
     
  13. dieu25

    dieu25 Well-Known Member

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    these r for sure, but if ur in high school, there are more signs cuz these i have done
    - They give short replys and give some excuse to get away from u
    - if u pass dem by in the hallways, they dun see ur there and ignore
    - dun seem to see them at all except for classes
    - tunes out when ur talking to them, says dey were listening to someting else
    - if they r on ur messenger (like msn, yahoo) rn't on, n when u ask dey say they were on but didnt see u

    i also haf a 6th sense if someone has lost interest. its like fire burning on ur skin (bad metaphor) but u just noe. if u dun haf dis, get esp
     
  14. lenachen

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    I think if you're thinking they are losing interest then they are...b/c that kind of stuff I think you can sense...you're just trying to ignore it. Oh and all these answers that's been given so far I think only apply to early relationships...how do you know if the person you've been with for a really long time, live w/them and share everything is losing interest? I think it'd be different.
     
  15. ipepsi

    ipepsi Well-Known Member

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    she gives u the-bash
     
  16. shyyun83

    shyyun83 Active Member

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    when the person starts to avoid u, and saying all sort of nonsense not to go out with u.
     
  17. kiki730

    kiki730 Member

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    communication is key, i dont think there's a need to hide anything, so if both sides speak their minds, a lot of games and misunderstanding can be prevented and u wont have to always sit and wonder