How do you socialize with your gf/bf parents

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by tszeng, Aug 31, 2007.

  1. tszeng

    tszeng Member

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    seriously all I do is watch anime and play games all day I have no idea what to talk about

    infact, when I do talk, I'm actually an asshole

    I have no idea what to talk about with someone 20+ years older than me

    I hunger for bananas btw
     
  2. wheezo

    wheezo Well-Known Member

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    well, usually the parents start a conversation with me, like how's school... etc, and u start from there, but seriously, i have nothing to ask them... i can talk about wut kinda brat their daughter is, that's bout it. lol
     
  3. misscrisander

    misscrisander Well-Known Member

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    ask your gf what their interests are first and then build the conversation around that.... :)
     
  4. i'm a girl... i get away with it easily... i make a few jokes n the parents crack up n they like me...

    but if ur a guy i guess u need to act a bit mature in front of gf's parents... it's always bonus points if u act like ur serious abt ur relationships n have some kinda plan for the future n know wot ur doing...
     
  5. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    yeah i agree to that...
    when ur a girl...just help with doing the dishes...show interest in cooking, go shopping with the mom and stuff like that :D
    once the mother likes u...the dad will like u too cuz imo the mothers are always harder to satisfy...

    for a guy?
    hmmm....my ex bf used to bring food over when he came to dinner...and sometimes some of my mothers fav cake or whatever...
    U have to give them the impression ur a decent
    He used to chat with my dad about cars& watch soccer with him...:p
     
  6. i don't bring guys home... simple as that... :p
     
  7. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    well...i guess thats th disadvantage of a long distance relationship...=/
     
  8. long distance relationship??

    never been in one... never will... don't believe in it...
     
  9. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    haha...long distance was 2,5 hours...so its not THAAAAT long but still...im not gonna let him travel 5 hours everytime we are meetin up u know...
    and even if i did...what the hell are we gonna do everytime we meet up....hang out outside all the time =/ ?
     
  10. kekeke... so wot do u guys do when u meet up?? :p
     
  11. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    besides not wasting money on food, cinema tickets and all that?
    thats private...:p
     
  12. chi_man

    chi_man Well-Known Member

    pretty lifeless lol

    anyways, what I do is just talk with them about your gf, school and other random stuff, you can talk about anything, dont show too much from your negative sides though cuz parents are usually worried if their daughter's bf isn't such a good person XD
     
  13. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    are u a guy? >_<?
     
  14. chi_man

    chi_man Well-Known Member

    uh yea? What's the problem??
     
  15. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    no no...no problem...i just thought u were a chica for some reason :D
     

  16. n u managed to get urself a gf?? must b miracle number 3...
     
  17. chi_man

    chi_man Well-Known Member

    oh cool, ima girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    exaclty what I thought XD
     
  18. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    wow....that changed fast....
    hey, are u from thailand?
     
  19. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    I find that a lot of times the parents are amazed that you can actually speak, write and read chinese. Its much easier to work on the mother since majority of them watch TVB shows and etc.
     
  20. chi_man

    chi_man Well-Known Member

    omfg, how do you know im from thailand?? I guess ill need to tell you the truth... actually ima a boy from thailand and changed into a girl. I wanted to be a female prostitute so then I moved to the netherlands since its legal here... I guess I will come to you if Ihave time :)