How to ask out....

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by AsianInvasion, Feb 13, 2008.

  1. AsianInvasion

    AsianInvasion Well-Known Member

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    #1 AsianInvasion, Feb 13, 2008
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  2. fafeifa

    fafeifa Well-Known Member

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    when i ask a girl out i just say "hey what you doing sunday( or any day) we could go watch a movie (or whatever u wanna do). I guess is more friendly than just plain "hey baby lets go dinner tonight" good luck.
     
  3. AsianInvasion

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    Thanks Ill try it XD, hopefully it works hehe
     
  4. damn.. so many friends liking friends thread..
     
  5. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    trust me it's risky

    Because i've had a friend confess to me after many years, and i shot him down
    and things have been weird between us ever since

    I think you need to take a more slowly sliding in approach
    two other friends tried with me
    one i shot down, but because it was so slow, and i basically said, hey back off, we're not suited to being lovers, but just friends, we were able to go back to being friends right away

    but the other guy, i gave him a chance, and that relationship held quite strong for a long time




    I guess i can see your situation going both in a positive and in a negative

    by advice is not to SHOCK the person, cause that could have bad aftermath results
     
  6. tiffer858

    tiffer858 Well-Known Member

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    seriously. dang ... :stickpoke:
     
  7. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    well if your not afraid to lose a great friendship then take a shot (you never know what happens until you try right?) but if not i wouldnt recommend it
     
  8. skid

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    just ask for a date first, call her out casually. then see if shes interested or not and decide from there.

    I agree with smallrinilady, don't shock the person, i've had once or twice came on too strong unexpectantly and it went awkward. But funny thing is we are still friends, and the other one i eventually went out with for a short time...but she was still shocked at first haha
     
  9. AsianInvasion

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    Man haha XD, im scared now :p.....
     
  10. Aznguy123

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    lols! or you can do this....... walk with her ..... then ask her " can you hold this" you hand her your hand then smile, next question " so you held my hand then im guessing you said yes to be my girlfriend!" THEN hug her. THANK YOU and whisper god that was easy.
     
  11. AsianInvasion

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    WOW haha, I would love to do that lololol. What if shes like, "but theres nothing in your hand.... -sweat
     
  12. Aznguy123

    Aznguy123 Well-Known Member

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    then you respond " oh you mean that circle thingy??" its a RING!!!!!! NOW PUT IT ON YOUR FINGER AND KISS ME! haha
     
  13. AsianInvasion

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    LMAO, haha I should try that.......... -lol
     
  14. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    well if ur Chinese , i have the perfect pick up line for you um 'Name' 你知道 um 你在 ‘day' 有不有街出阿, 我喜歡你很久, 想跟你做個朋友,不過要拖手仔阿。
     
  15. AsianInvasion

    AsianInvasion Well-Known Member

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    Haha think you can right it in pin yin for cantonese :D? lolol
     
  16. jdm_s2k

    jdm_s2k Well-Known Member

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    have u decided on what to do yet?
     
  17. AsianInvasion

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    not yet :S Im thinking about asking her to see a movie with me.... and maybe if it goes well there Ill ask her after..
     
  18. chronovial

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    you can try giving small hints, and see how she reacts to you. If you acts closer or more "special" towards you than other guys maybe she likes you too.

    I think you should take it slow a bit, if you don't want her to be too shocked ^^

    good luck~
     
  19. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol , just tell her u like her, she prob cant read your mind, Plus Girls like it if ur Sure about something rather than 不清楚 about love
     
  20. PHCOP101

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    Do u think she like u?
    Or do u feel it?
    if not, then u better give up lo...