i m opening another topic for guys and girls that wanna help out the singles most of the time 1st impression is de most important thing b4 a relationship starts. There are a sequence of scenario, as for men u would hav to present a decent look i do not mean well comb hair or well dress. You just hav to look in confidence thats all. 2nd the words that come out of your mouth is very important that makes you stand out among the other guys. 3rd is the hardest of all coz u hav to do the 1st n 2nd rite then makes her think that she cant hav u. "Case study" I am invited to my best-friend's housewarming party which is a "girl" My motive is to meet some pretty girls ofcoz ^_^ that is for all the guys out there too haha. OK dont go there on time ya.. not too late around 15-20 mins late is enuf coz that gives a refreshing of introducing by that means u will b the center of the crowd at least for a brief moment. Make use of that brief moment like shaking hand for instance. What did i do? when i shake on a pretty girls hand i told her that her hand were soft after saying that she looks abit shy n blush. by that time u were being notice by everyone after that stop being so funny and focus on the game that they r playing but from time to time make fun of ur best friend as u always did. at the end of the party ask the contact of the girl that u shake her hand. success rate is 75%. Do Not Ask Her out too early make her wait for at least for 3-5days Point 1st look in confidence = being late"those of being late means that people r waiting for you , u must b somebody to b wait by someone 2nd stand out among the other guys = when i shake her hand i tell her that her hand were soft which make u different from other guys that intro themselves "she will atleast remember your name" and got her attention 3rd makes her think that she cant hav u = makes her think that u were in a relationship with your bestfriend if i were wrong in someways plz correct me thanks
i dun like to let ppl wait for me, so i always try to get there on time. cuz i think when youre late, it shows that you cant manage. but it might be different at a party. i hardly go to parties so have never been too late
With regards to having a first impression, I don't really care about that, as in I don't try hard to earn someone's impression, you can't live life expecting everyone to love you. So I just be myself - and respect other people the way I want them to respect me... and from there, just see what happens.
pretty obvious advice for any guys that's past high school and are in uni and college. it's all about social skills and looking well-groomed. the latter not so much say once you get talking to them. basic thing that a guy needs to know is that the nice guy routine never works.
dh_135: Nice routine don;t work ??? what abotu talking to the girl as if you would any other person don't give them any special attention treat them normal ???
dont believe in what those silly korean dramas tell you.. they're a load of shit targeted towards the chicks treat them normally, and youll just be treated like a normal friend in return and things are gonna be borrring. poke fun and being playful is the way to go.
Definitely, treating your girlfriend special is always important, but its just as important to keep it casual. If you spoil her every single day she's going to expect a certain standard of care, and the moment you drop that ball, you're fucked in the poopchute. Plus it's definitely way more fun to have a relationship where you're like best friends, not just lovers. Having a balanced relationship is key.
