You meet a girl with her younger sister and you are more interested in the younger one but that girl is busy, so you can't see her often. Now the problem: The older sister believes you are interested in her. Of course you want to be polite and don't say "go away I wait for your sister" or "I like your sister" what do you do if the older one falls in love with you but don't want to show that you like her sister. Or in the worsest case you should quit that family and try to start to meet with another girl?-unsure
lol ur screwed =P jk! i guess u can either be really harsh and tell the girl in the face.."i think ur sisters cute... u reckon u can hook us up?" lol the thing is, as long as the older sister hasnt said anything about being interested in u, u still have the option of hinting things to her (e.g. u ebing interested in someone else i.e. young sis or just "someone"... not mentioning names).. but if its out in the open.. then erm.. yeh like i mentioned earlier.. ure screwed=) (JKs!).. if u really like the younger sis, i'm sure there are plenty of way around things.. otherwise i'm sure u'll find someone else =) *points to the ocean..* see all the fish in there? =)
y don't u wanna let her know u like her sister?? if u n her sister goes out don't u think she would know anyway?? infact... i think u should let her know her sister is the one u like so she won't fall deeper n deeper... n if u don't wanna b too harsh by saying "ur sis is the one i like" u can always talk abt her sister... ask her everything abt ur sister... say how good she is... n if she's not too thick in the head she'll understand...
If she still don't understand... You could show her that u r interested in her sis in the way of caring her like giv a call to her sis to chat I think she should understand cos u had show her that u r not interested in her
Confirm her feelings first Before you think abt what to do, make sure that the younger sis like you. If she does, you two can work together on gently let the older sister down. If the girl doesn't like you, you save yourself all the troubles.
hm..i think you should tell that older sister first, that you're not interested in her. dont wanna make her wait so long for you when the result's fruitless. =T
this is like going back to the Twins thread... leave them the hell alone so they can actually stay as siblings instead of enemies... seriously if you've been like leading the older sis on and then finally realize you like the younger sis... you are uff'd up.. and hell the younger sis might not even like you anyways.
ur best option is find another target.... or just keep trying with the younger one and try keep frens with the big sister ... if she tries to make a move on u .. play dumb
are you sure the older sister likes u? well you can just talk to the older sister about her younger sister,show ur interesting in the younger one and then she will definitly back off. Then there will be this fued between you and the older one. IF you can, stay the fcuk away =D. so that the sisters can live in happiness
Because the older one is always disturbing me (calling me. writing letters, send me gifts) this stuff is getting on my nervs -unsure
Start over with a new family. Haha Tell the older sister that you arent interested in her, if she understands then well good for you! But if she doesnt understand then I dont believe you even stand a chance with the younger sister. If the older sister cant get over her feelings for you then the younger sister will be obligated to not date you even if she liked you. Theyre blood, they'll stick together and will probably decide that you arent worth the awkwardness that will present itself if you pursue the younger sister. Does the younger sister even have an interest in you? Cause either way I look at it you dont want the older one, but you arent going to get the younger one. ;] Sorry.
^^ haha that may be too much for the boy to handle. But you know in some Asian countries that wouldnt be considered that strange.
