recently, ive bin in love wit this gal i knew...but neva rely had a proper chance 2 get up n close 2 her - wit a messed up valentine d8 - which i dnt wna go in2 specific details ¬¬"...well ive jst found out recently, shes wit some guy - but l8r found she was in risk of bein dumped by that b*****d...but ended up 2gether again... Nw, i feel so depressed ...@ college n hme...feel like ive lost interest in evrythin else...dnt feel like tlkin 2 friends, or joinin in group conversations wit anybody... im stil in love wit her, but cnt accept that shes wit another guy...i duno hw 2 move on..*sighs* - is it my fault or the fact that I am 2 sensitive 2 let things like this happen, n wnt 2 avoid it - even though it looks inevitable?
don't worry dude.. time will heal everything... I believe someone had a similar problem as you.. they were devastated at first.. but eventually picked themselves up and found someone special..
hope it will turn out beta...it causes me so mch hurt and sadness 2 fink of her all the tym...lyk i cnt let her go =P
thas one of the toughest things in life is letting go... just gotta stick it out... like that one saying...
aww...everyone has their crosses to bear in life. i mean..i can sorta relate. like, i remember one of my friend was in your shoes, so she kept herself busy, doing all these work and other stuff to keep her mind off him. and in the end, she got over it and met new friends and a new guy so..like..honestly, just like what ecko had said, time heals everything. you just gotta try and move on...
^ yep i agree with what people have said soo far........ TIME WILL HEAL EVERYTHING ...... so just try and forget her by doing other things and soon you'll see another hot girl that takes your fancy -lol
this is the most hardest - fing i ave had 2 do - by far- n ive neva bin in a proper relationship..but hope time will heal everythin =P - gr8ly appreci8 ur support 4rm u guyz ^^
hi ming ming, well time will tell, i know it's hard to let go. But as you age and grow older by the days, weeks, months, and years you will slowly realise that things aren't meant to be. So you will have to let it go rather than keeping at it. Otherwise a quick solution to this is to talk to her and tell her the truth in private. Then see how she reacts and who knows what will happen next. But at least you won't have that urging feeling inside you forever, then maybe you can move on after that.
well i guess i cld move on...after finishin listenin 2 nelly - over n over again...its best if i cld tel her hw i felt bout her...but since shes moved on - i cnt rely do anythin 2 change the situation...but move on meself
actualy jacky Cheung - Wang Ji Ta (Forget Him/Her) is a betta choice 2 hear...than nely - over n over again
i spoke 2 her the other day...heard she broke up , used the advise 2 tlk 2 her...but even afta all that...stil hav that gutted feelin in me, the feeling has bin clingin 2 me 4 pretty long...i duno if its me or somethin...but even though she broke up...i feel i cn use that 2 get her as i knda still like her...but that jst feels 2 selfish init? I do want 2 giv her tym...n 4 meself..but hw longs? any1 hu cn help me?
hmmm.... seeing as the situations changed now..... i think you should give her a bit of time and space to get over him as you dont want to be the re-bound guy
yeah i agree...you dont wanna be the re-bound guy..that wouldnt be really nice. besides she needs time to heal, exactly the advice we all gave to you. just give her some space and be patient im sure you'll win her over
well seeing from ur profile ur still quite young there will stilll be alot more girls out there as the old saying goes y let go of the forest for just one tree or was it y go for just one fish and let go of the whole school of fish or something like that....newayz yea u should really just go out with ur friends more and do alot of things that would take ur mind of thigns and prevent u from doing any unneccessary business as in like thinking of her and making u sad and making u all depressed. the best thing for u now is to grab hold of friends cuz they will always be there for u unlike that girl rite now which couldnt care less bout how u feel even if u told what happened or care much about the situation u are in at the moment so ur best bet should be to just go out more think less and concentrate more on things that are at hand. relationships come and go and same with liking some1 and not being liked back but u have many years to go since ur only 16 and im 19 so you shouldnt panic just yet unless ur like 30 then u can but hey thats 14 yeasr from now so keep ur head up high, go out more and let time do its work =)
