I am from austria and work in a casino. I studied about a year, but i lost my interest in education so i broke up and looked for a job then i worked as accounter in a firm about a year. Then i heared my cousin that a card casino looks for new dealers so i make a dealer education and work there since 3 month. and there i met a chinese girl name Jenny Y. the first time i dont really fell her attraction since a day i brought her home she live in the north of vienna and i live the other side of vienna the south. and i felt we got a lot of interest together. we are chinese but grew up in austria can speak mandarin (she) and i speak (cantonese), but we cant read any words and only can wrote our name. I felt i already find the girl i always looking for, but next day i got the information she already got a baby. I was really shocked, because i thought she is married. but the man she love left her alone with the baby as the baby was in his first month, i felt really sorry for her and want the to cheer her up. i know she love him forever and ever. In the coming month i always waiting her to bring her home i really fall in love in her. i fell we can be a couple, but i worried about the baby because i only 23 and i dont really know can i handle it. My feelings are stronger and stronger for her now. i thiink about her every minute no ervery second. one day i say i will marry her but she sad i am still a kid. i fell very sorry about that. but i dont give up it. one day i ask her for a date in hungary, the food there is really good and the cosemtic services and massage are also very cheap. but this was a big a mistake she dont fell really happy about this day. ater in the night we went back to vienna i go to a disco in the 16. district in vienna (nussdorferstrasse). She called all her chinese friends to the disco. i thought there are so embarresed, they danced all like they never saw people danced before. i try to talk to them but they all only speak mandarin and i only speak german. so i go away after 3 houers see they all celebrating. i this moment i felt we are two different persons. from different planets. The same night i went back to casino to talk with someone about my sadness. i go out with a good friend, he is also a good friend from jenny. he is married and 3 sons and married for 15 years i ask him for solutions, he told me that jenny isnt the right person for me she is looking for a older partner. i said the age isnt the reason. then he told me a secret he was together with jenny for 3 months, my world brokes down. this make me really sad and jenny have a big negativ point in her character. i m not a alternativ thinker, but this is really important for me. i cannot accept a woman that want to love a man, who is married and have 3 sons. call me old thinking but it is so. then i heared from my uncle he know jenny really good and he told me that she had a lot of crazy friend before. i was really shocked again from her because if my uncle say they are crazy the must be relly crazy because my uncle is crazy in my eyes and lazy. i dont know what to do, my heart say i still love her, but my brain say i cant like her. im so dispressed and cant sleep at night. I already shows her my feelings but she blocked up. and dont talk to me anymore i know me really well i cant be with her only friends. if i dont be a couple i cant and i wont see her again anymore. at the day at hungery she told me some things she dont like at me: She think i dont be a chinaman, but i dont really think it is very negativ. because i grew up with people with different culture so i really european and not mandarin. She dont like the style i wear my clothes, she is the first person in my life that told me that all my friends and classmates and my cousins says i have really style in wearing clothes. She ignore me now, and i always sing karaoke to sing out my feelings. specialy in cantonese and korean . my favourtie songs are the theme songs from korean tv my girl and cantones beyond like you and eason chan miss you finally and andy hui true herat true intension. i can sings this songs every minute. i hope she will find her true love and maybe one day we could be good friend if i find my true love. i only will see her only a few of month than i went to usa hawaii to study maybe or to shanghai to learn mandarin. i dont think we will keep in touch but i dont think it will be so.
You should move on in life if she said no to you already. Btw, just a suggestion, maybe brushing up on your english would be a good idea, since its a little hard to follow your story.
lmao this is like that 'I like a chinese girl' thread made by that mexican hombre, except you're Austrian. I got a bit more respect for you cuz you have a bit better english and because of your origin. Austria was one of the birthplaces of classical music... whereas mexico was the birthplace of tacos and... uuuh... soft tacos. In my opinion, there are many asian ladies out there... probably 700 million + almost. And yet you are trying to tie yourself down to some chick who doesn't even know your language and already has a baby. hahaha and the fact she has already slept with your friend is sad. It shows that she obviously doesn't care to be committed to one person, and is just a skank/ heart breaker. also, the fact you call chinese people 'China-men' shows that you aren't above racial slurs, meaning that character-wise, you are probably not entirely respectful of the culture. And that perhaps, you are only suffering from what we in the business call 'Yellow Fever'. If you are going to Hawaii, you are going to encounter aLOT of scantly clad hot asian and happa girls... trust me, you will completely forget about this jenny chick in like a week (also, about your buddy who has been married for 15 years... was he cheating on his wife with this jenny chick??? hahaha, you Europeans sure are crazy)
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I'm telling you know... anyone you meet in the Casino is not trustworthy!! well not everyone... but it's still best that you stay away people like that... cause you of all people should know how complicated it is..
Wow, but you already know the unpleasant site of this girl and she´s by the sound of it really not long term relationship material! If you only pity for her and start a relationship with her will only cause you more troubles. She will probably pluck all the money from you (perhaps together with her other Chinese friends) if you let her into your life. She´s not worth it dude.
i agree with what everyone said man.. jusst move on? she doesnt seem to be a nice girl if shes sleeping around with so many men. seroiusly. theres heaps more girls on this planet. ur still young 23 ?
a chick you cant be with so suck it up go to sleep look for another one there are literally millions of girls out there its not that hard to find another one that is suited to your preference
-cool2 so i see fearless has been to hawaii -clapclap asian yes...the hapa ones are a hit or miss...some are DAMN other are eeehhh... i have to agree with fearless...i live in hawaii and the asian girls are pretty hot...especially if u into the japanese fobbie type...the local asian girls aren't too bad either though you'll see more of those at the clubs...you'll catch some at the beach during the weekend getting a tan or just enjoyin the sun. anyways goin back to the topic....i get the feeling from your post that she ain't into you and you aren't really her type...and if she already has denied you up front then its not goin to progress any further then that :( and i'm sure its hard to move on and what not...but hell...if you do come to hawaii..just hit a few clubs or the beach or even just ala moana (largest shopping mall in hawaii) and you'll see lots of cute females...hell even crusing around the town walmart will have you truning your head more than you expect so i wish ya the best of luck with this issue
Is that true sorry but your story sound like something from a movie but if it's true then DON'T GIVE UP AND TRY IT ONCE MORE IF YOU LOVE HER OR ELSE YOU'LL BE SORRY FOR LIFE.
I personally wouldn't attach myself to a female that already has a kid. It's just me, but I find it wrong. If it's a kid I take care of, it best be of my own flesh and blood. In your case, if you really do truly love her for who she is, you probably shouldn't mind her child. You can't really love her and find it a nuisance that she has a kid. It just wouldn't work. Either you put down all your worries and take her in along with the child & love her throughout OR .. take a pass.
