I need help

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by ralliartlancerevov, Mar 30, 2008.

  1. ralliartlancerevov

    ralliartlancerevov Well-Known Member

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    hello all.

    i have a weird situation rite now regarding about a girl i like. i met here about 6 months ago. since i met her we've been talking non-stop. on february 12, i ask her if she has any plans on valentine day. she tells me no. but the problem is that on the day before the date, she tells me that someone has already asked her out but she never respond to the guy yet. she told me if i would of asked early she would loved to go out with me. now its been sometime now and i still dont know what should i do. i dont know if i should ask her out again or what. i dont want to make it seems like im desperate. i still call her out to chill but i dont know what to do or say now. i just need some advice.
     
  2. ralliartlancerevov

    ralliartlancerevov Well-Known Member

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    guys and girls. if u have any advice please feel free to post. i really need advice. thnx
     
  3. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    id say get a calender lol, valentines day was almost 2 months ago. if you guys are still talking then that obviously wasnt a big deal and its time to ask her out. buy her some flowers or take her to a fancy restaurant. If she enjoys it then maybe sexytime is a possibility.
     
  4. realazyjai

    realazyjai Well-Known Member

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    are you sure she likes you aswell ??? its going to be awkward between the both of you if you asked her out and she responds with a no.
     
  5. 小Yu咒

    小Yu咒 ♪♪♫很可愛~♥

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    well first thing to do is you need too forget about the valentines day..no regrets or whatsoever..what happens it happens..no turning back..dont feel bad/sad bout it, restrain yourself and just look forward..be positive!
    just ask yourself now: did she go out with the other guy? does she has a boyfriend now or is she still single?
    now i think the answer is clear..and theres no problem here..so you must make a move first before the other guy does, otherwise you will regret it..
    i think she was just honest to you and dont want too give hopes at both guys at the same time? so i must give her credit for that..
    but since you are the guy, soz..im still a bit oldminded-lol, YOU SHOULD MAKE THE MOVE and not she..
    so just like fearless says give it a try..and take her out, it will cost you though :p but love makes it all worthy?
     
  6. you should have asked her out waaaaay earlier then now if you really liked her.
    but maybe its not to late yet.... if you dont try.. you always lose ;)
     
  7. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    lol, who cares if another guy asked, you have to fight for it.

    no effort, no prize
     
  8. sukic

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    ask her out!!
    what's the worse that could happen?
    just be friends again! hehehe
    but it might be a bit awkward if she said no :S:S:S
     
  9. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    just ask her out for a casual date..and if it doesn't work out its no biggie
     
  10. Don't worry about it, give it another shot! No use sitting back in thinking about what could have been, without giving it a try first.
     
  11. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol go for it, u wont know unless u've tried, well if u fail, Screw her Bit*h, then look for a new target haha
    Nah but if it doesnt work out, u Cant Force Feelings.
     
  12. neko-pochi

    neko-pochi Well-Known Member

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    If you two are still talking and hanging out, it must mean she appreciates you! I would say to ask her to the movies or some plays (if she's into that) or anything you think she might enjoy, then invite her to go eat somewhere (not too fancy) and at the end, confess. :)

    If you try too hard.... it will either throw her off or make her melt. But with simple, casual things, it's always cute. :) Also, if you're with someone you like, it doesn't matter what you do or where you are ne? ;)
     
  13. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    ^^ wouldn't it be too early to confess on first date?
    i think you should go out a few times...then that would probli mean she enjoys being with you...then u ask her out properly lol
     
  14. babs

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    why did you wait so long???? you should've asked her out again after valentine's day!!! she might think that you have lost interest in her by now since you didnt make a move. you should play this one carefully cause things may become weird if she rejects you. do you think she has a thing for you?
     
  15. ralliartlancerevov

    ralliartlancerevov Well-Known Member

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    thx guys for the advice.