I want ur opinion

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by andytang04, Feb 7, 2008.

  1. andytang04

    andytang04 Active Member

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    well hmmm I've known dis girl for about 6 1/2 years now the relationship we have is off and on. idk how to say it we love each other alot but its hard to be together cause its a long distance relationship. She's my everything I would do anything in da world 4 her...everytime we see each other we always click..when we talk we understand what da other 1 is talking about and i guess we can kinda read each others mind's...we know each other so well..long story short idk wat to do. I mean off and on doing dis..da only way to make it work is to move where she is and be der 4 her but da situation right now im in its hard too.lately we had dat talk again..to jus u kno be really good close idk wat to call it..im always der 4 her no matter..but yeah wat im asking is should I see other people or jus wait and be by her side like Ive always have.
     
  2. so wot's stopping u from moving there??
     
  3. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol same as above, If You Would do anything then do it , no need to ask us , the point is that u tried , 咖油 , anyway , theres always Msn if u cant be with her ^^, Smart People invented a webcam lol
     
  4. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    @ OP How far is she away from you?
     
  5. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    hmmmm.....yeah....long distance sucks.......... but if u really like her then go for it!!!
     
  6. lawltank

    lawltank Well-Known Member

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    One thing about long distances relationships is that you gotta know what you guys are gonna do together in the future. Obviously, you both think this relationship is good (and will stay that way in the future) enough to keep even though it's still long distance, which imo...is the first step.

    However, you wanting to move to where she lives? I do NOT think that's a good idea unless you're also gonna actually DO SOMETHING ELSE while you're there. What I mean is...DON'T just go there for her. You may really REALLY want to go and live with/near her, but it's kinda stupid in the end if you're just going there to see/be with her. I know it's all sweet and stuff, but seriously, if you wanna really keep the relationship going...find something to do while you're there. i.e. working, studying, etc. Have a life that's not all about her too. I'm pretty sure she has her kind of stuff to do where she lives. (studying or working)
     
  7. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    how can u be there for her when its long distancee
     
  8. tiffer858

    tiffer858 Well-Known Member

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    if you really do anything for her than wat is stopping you from moving to her. this thing will work out don't worry :D
     
  9. turbobenx

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    i kno how u feel. Im actually a coward when it comes to girls too. But even tho it would hurt ur pride/ego if u r rejected, jsut give it a try. U never kno the answer unless u ask.

    i never got rejected before, so i dunno how it really feels like to be rejected.
     
  10. frostshards

    frostshards Well-Known Member

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    ^ yeh except this isnt about him asking her out. he is just undecided about whether or not he should go live with his gf or not. i would say no. unless ur gonna marry her. u woudl be sacrificing al ot of things, if u end up moving with her, and then breaking up . if ur still young. find smoeone else. i dont believe in long distance.
     
  11. jdm_s2k

    jdm_s2k Well-Known Member

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    i thought about the samething!

    perhaps get a job? save money? visit her? if its still worthwhile?

    if not....you really did try...sometimes long distance....its not that...it will work or not...more like "fate and destiny" put together....either your "IT" or "NOT IT"...

    does that make sense?
     
  12. craizkebi

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    I'm in the EXACT same situation but with one difference. With me it's one-sided love.
    However! Seeing as I love her probably just as much as you love her, I know exactly how you feel and I think that you should never ever give up!
    Continue to stay by her side and keep lots of contact. You never know what the future might hold for you both!

    With this, I wish you THE BEST!
     
  13. turbobenx

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    long distance.............but how long? half a world apart? 3 hrs away? outer space? how long. but regardless, long distance relationship is hard to maintain.
     
  14. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    IMO don't move there unless you can find a job or do some studying or anything that will keep you busy. You really have to plan ahead for this, and think long term. I mean maybe when you're with her everyday over there, you find out you don't really like her as much as when you only see her once in a while. I'm not doubting your love for her, but moving from a long distance to a regular one changes a lot of things, and the differences might be the things that can make or break the relationship. Anyways what ever happens i hope it all works out for you.
     
  15. andytang04

    andytang04 Active Member

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    im not going der blindly i know i have to prepare, ive been planning it for awhile well alot more recently dis past year i've been working hard on wat to do.
     
  16. glad to know ur planning ur way... n one more thing... does she want u move there??
     
  17. andytang04

    andytang04 Active Member

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    yea we talked about it a bunch of times im trying to find a affordable place to stay though hopefully sometime later dis year i can move.
     
  18. rNb99

    rNb99 Well-Known Member

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    awww sounds like a sweet love story you got there.
    i'm sure it will work well for yas.
    all the best!
    hope you'll be able to find an affordable place! think positive =]
     
  19. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol , so MSN is the way to go =P , its hows the pros do it lol, it even works in different countries, i mean serious, If theres really YUEN FUN , then no matter where u are, how far u are, or what happens , u 2 will still love each other
     
  20. that's great!!!! -clapclap-clapclap u can always recruit roomies if rent's an ass :p