This international student asked to if the seat next to me is taken one day, I said no and she sat there. It just so happens that day is the same day our class is going on a fieldtrip. She later asked if i can drive her b/c she is not familiar with that area. I thought it was weird because i hardly spoken to her before or even noticed her (only exchanged email to send exchange pictures taken in the class). I said yes anyway because I wasn;t in a position to say no. We talked during the car ride about random stuff such as her life in china, major, classes taking, etc. I try to throw in some jokes just because, but she has a hard time understanding it due to cultural and native language differences. At the destination, we met up with our professor, and carried out our assignments. I found it odd because she was with her chinese international friends the whole time, but she asked me for a ride specifically. On the car ride back, the same stuff happened, we talked about random things. From that day on, she started sitting next to me during lecture but she would always would with her buddies during lab. Maybe its because my seat has a good view of the lecture board. I would just talk to her about class related things whenever she does sit next to me. One day, she forgot her notebooks on near my desk and i was one of the last ones leaving for lab. the right thing for me to do was of course keep it and give it back to her during the next class. I got home checked my email and she was asking if i have her notebooks to call or text her at xxx xxx xxxx if i do have it. I texted her etc.. Gave the notebooks back to her during the next class meeting and talked to her casually during class. 2 days later i decided to text her to make conversation, but more so flirty. i said hi and she texted back hi. i asked her, "are you 19 or 22, because i forgot what you told me before" she said "19... isnt it rude to ask for a girls age in american culture? =P" we texted from there, but i think that initial start was the only spark in the conversation, as i slowly ran out of ideas and got dull. I would text her here and there about school assignments and talk to her in class about random things from there on. Just recently i decided to text her asking "hey xxx, do you want to study together this weekend? (we have an exam coming up the following week) I figured asking to study together is the safest thing you can possibly ask a girl. she responded 3 hrs later saying "i'd love to but i am just to busy to go out". I then replied "no problem, let me know when you can". One hour later, she texted " : )". I replied "yes?" Another hour and 30 mins later she said, "just wanted to reply to your last text" I replied saying "oh lol i am sleeping now goodnight" she replied back right away saying "night" I have class in a few days, but i do not know how to act to this. I would like to get to know her more and maybe start something with her. One problem i for sure know is that the language and cultural barrier prevents casual and fluid conversations. Also, this may seem unrelated, lame, and incoherent with the story, but she and one of her buddies added me on facebook the day after i found her notebooks (not sure if this says anything). Also, this may be sinister but i will include it anyway, one of her friends who was a former classmate of me and my girlfriend, yes my girlfriend, added my girlfriend on facebook, i saw this and quickly told my girlfriend to decline. I hope you all understand, as a male, i would like to expand my options as much as possible. My concerns are: how should i behave on during the next class meeting? should i continue texting or talking to her casually? was her saying she was busy honest or she is just not interested? I know this is a lot to read, just to help a random person on the interenet, but this is what this subforum is here for, right? Thanks in advance
So in other words.. You met a girl you've never noticed before She seems to have interest in you You started to develop interest for her She seems cold after times You have a girlfriend What should you do?
so you wrote a wall of text asking how to cheat on your girlfriend? wow wasted my time should've put that in the title.
if you want a lot of woman around you then don't get a girlfriend just have sex so yeah you waste my time.
Oh damn, I didn't take that into consideration. That's true, if you have a girlfriend, you should be loyal and respect her rather than courting/flirting other girls. It's not right. Flow la = where the wind blows , you stick with that and follow.
From the Wiki page of Wendy Murdoch: IMHO, What you have here, is called a User; one who really doesn't care what she does to get where she needs to go. Wendy Murdoch (as detailed above) is a prime example of just how this is done. My advice would be to forget this "international student" and let her cast her mendacious immigrant hooks someone else. She sounds like she's looking for a life preserver and if a better one comes along, you'll be cast off as the flotsam she actually sees you as.
OMGGGGG... U serious??? ¬_¬ U have a girlfriend yet ur trying it with another girl and find HER behaviour strange... WELL I WONDER WHYYYY!! MAYBE COS U HAVE A DAMN GF AND SHES TRYIN TO KEEP HER DISTANCE THICK SHIT *sighhhh* Seriously.... Kids these days and if u interested in ur 'OPTIONS' then dun get in a relationship in the first place and fuk up two girls fool T_T Maybeeee... Just MAYBBEEEE She's too busy to go out with u cos she dun wanna waste her time???? ¬_¬
Holy crap.... Really waste of my time here. Couldn't you put something else on your title like "I LIKE TO KNOW HOW TO CHEAT MY GIRLFRIEND" and btw really nice trick to leave the part that you have a GF at the end of the post.
Good perspective on this. Is there a possibility of me using the "user" at this state? Secondly, to all of those who say I am being disloyal and should stop cheating on my girlfriend. I am by no means going to cheat on her because I still love her very much. I just want to use this new person as much as possible (not working very well), which is why I asked for help here.
use this new person? LMAOSHMSFOAIDMT. Here is my advice.... ask her for a threesome with your girlfriend, surprise le gf by having sexy time with this new girl and having your current gf walk in on you two and then ask if she wants to join.... works in porn.
1) You want to know what's going on with this girl 2) Ralp suggested that she might have been using you 3) Now you want to find ways to use her as much as possible Douche much?
man i read all that to find out you have a gf later.. if you want to be her friend then its fine but it sounds like u want to date her :kekekegay: she's found out about your gf and had a playa alert and is keeping her distance, you still want to play after the cover is blown then u gotta have thick skin, lots of confidence and risk losing your gf.
