if someone you like rejected you once would you try to ask that person out again?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Beamobaby, Apr 6, 2006.

  1. Beamobaby

    Beamobaby Well-Known Member

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    meaning say if you were rejected once and this was like a year to 6months ago would you try to ask that person out?
     
  2. limbo

    limbo Member

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    i rkn, if it didn work b4, it wuldn work now, unless u've changed somehow or changed the reason y she said no
     
  3. sitorbewwi

    sitorbewwi Well-Known Member

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    well.. only if your sure that he/she likes you for sure ..or else it would be extremely extremely embarassing to get rejected AGAIN o. o
     
  4. shy

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    No, because most likely, I wouldn't still be interested in him.
     
  5. koga204

    koga204 Member

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    yeah i would.. that person probably got hotter.. or i got really horny one day.. oh yeah
     
  6. Beamobaby

    Beamobaby Well-Known Member

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    hmm... id make that person ask me out.. i woudlnt want to ask her out.. again.. dont want to get rejected twice right? ahha thats just bad.. you just want to hit your head on the wall lol
     
  7. quisToper

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    I would try again if I still have the same feelings for her 6 months or year later... but ya know it gets awkward if you guys are friends to start with... i mean is it worth it? is it? i mean if you get rejected you lose the booty and the buddy... so don't fail the second time haha
     
  8. popalopa

    popalopa Well-Known Member

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    No I never would ask them again. If I'm still interested, I would still hang out with /around this person, but now it would be his turn to take the first step, if he changed his mind.
    Pretty safe ;)
     
  9. mystery

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    I second what shy said. I mean 6 months to a year is a LONG time! I've never even had a crush on anyone for that long before. Anyway I like leaving the asking for the guys :p
     
  10. pisha

    pisha Well-Known Member

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    I would do it! Be persistent! Using a lill charm you can get them to like you ^^
     
  11. binks

    binks Member

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    well .. if u really liekz that person ..
    i won't think u will stop right ...

    i mean .. al these really neeed patient ... u can't actually force yr partner to accept u instally man
     
  12. jello

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    probably not, If i asked out that person once, than he would know that I had feelings for him--so if he wants to give us a chance then he'll have to do the asking
     
  13. shadow Thi3f

    shadow Thi3f Well-Known Member

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    NO!!! why would you want someone who doesnt want u in return? Being persistant is for the foolish because there are so many other people out there that are right for you. A better alternative is to make that person ask you out later on in the future. Leave the person alone, do your own thing, workout, become successful, live your life, have fun and socialize. You never know, that person might see the change and become interested in you. At that point u have the power to accept or reject. It doesnt always work, but you are doing a lot of positive things to improve yourself and who knows you might meet a lot more people whom you are attracted to and vice versa.
     
  14. dot

    dot Well-Known Member

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    once bitten twice shy...if ur friendz first, they'll know where to find u if they ever change their mind!
     
  15. Giniro

    Giniro Well-Known Member

    I think I will not try it defeat the purpose to develope a relationship after try a few time it is weird love should be easy to feel. I rejected I will try my best not to bother as the end might just a waste of time.
     
  16. babyyjuju

    babyyjuju Well-Known Member

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  17. Tao_lung

    Tao_lung Well-Known Member

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    I'd ask her again when shes not seeing someone else.
     
  18. dieu25

    dieu25 Well-Known Member

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    if dere's a possibility, y not take the chance. adolescence is a time to take chances, do things ull feel embarssed but its all a part of life. dis goes for all ages, my friend had a 5 year crush on dis guy and finally said it and she go REJECTED, but den she asked him 3 years later to set things straight, move on wit life, and he totally digged her. dey now bf n gf now TAKE CHANCES PPL. U GUYS CONTROLLERS OF UR OWN DESTINY (god dat sounds corny)!
     
  19. Tao_lung

    Tao_lung Well-Known Member

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    Corny but never so true I heard it. Thats why I should of asked her out when I could of instead of being scared. *cries*
     
  20. jwyim84

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    try again when she's off guard!