i feel like shit right now...i just need some comfort and advice. i been with my ex for 2 years..and i can say i fucked it all up. i broke up with her during 1 year and six months, and when i broke up wit her i treated her like shit...ignore her i show no sympathy at all. then we got back together cause she gave me another chance and i lied to her, i talk to other females. that really hurt her. so we got back together and again i keep doing the same thing over and over again. telling her to leave whenever i want and asking her to come back whenever i want...everytime we argue things will never get solve and i would always put her in a position where she has to choose. i always threathen her to giving her back her stuff and wanting my stuff back and she will always ask me do you really mean it when you say is over and i always say no. i guess i made her so tire of trying. she told me that she wanted a break but i didn't give her that break. i forced her to make a decision to choose is either over or no. she choose is over for now. thats what she told me. she told me is over for now but don't know whats gonna happen. she told me she wants time away from me because she has no more room to try. but she said she wants to be with me so much and she cares about me. so what is that suppose to me. i ask her to give me another chance and this time i will make it right and then she finally agree but she said even though i give you another chance you should know that i am not happy. and she said dont expect me to try cause i told her i will try to make everything okay. i am so fucked up. i know you guys gonna say there's more fish in the sea...but i just want you guys to know i love her, i should of never let her go in the first place and treated her like that. so what should i do... i feel so bitter, i feel that if i let her go and live her life i cant face the fact that i understand how much i put her through and i want to make it right. but i feel like thats wrong to do...help me =[ i can't sleep or eat or go to work or go to school...=[
i'm sorry but u sound like a really horrible bf....><" an it kinda reminds me of the lyrics from 'Sor Por' by Jan Lam i reckon u need closure....an just need to talk to your ex about what happened....because based on what u did to her...i really doubt you two are going get back 2geva...but who knows... so u should talk to her an tell her that despite of what u did an how ur treated her etc....you did love her...but after saying so...its up to her whether she wants you back or not....so good luck to u..... but if my bf ever did that to me....several times no less! i wouldnt take him back either....
i seriously think you should end the whole thing-ann, seems to me u are just "loving" her out of pity and guilt because of the things u did to her before and maybe somehow believing that is a good thing to do ... but i think that is unfair on her because u will be loving her only because u want to apologise/make up for mistakes... these type of relationships are very painful, theres no trust left between 2 people and love can not work without trust, you will just hate each other more and more. -bash 2 years is a long time to be with someone...-doh take some time away from each other like a month or 2 then maybe ull both have a clearer mind and make better decision(s).. most of your problems seems to be caused because you are hesitant.. u need to learn to become more decisive and make more firm choices, men are supposed to take the lead arent they?-er
you sound like a real asshole of a boyfriend and now that she wants to have time for herself you realize that you dont want to lose her! stop being selfish and let her have her space. you treated her like shit time and time again because you were selfish and you took advantage of how much she cares about you. let her break up with you and if you really truly love her you will work hard at showing her that you deserve that last chance. chances are earned and shouldnt be given freely. you were given so many chances freely that it's now time that you earned it. let her go and fight to win her back. show her that you love her and that you are willing to really work hard at changing this time. this way, if she does willingly give you another chance you two will have a chance at making things work.
it doesn't even seem like ur treating her nice at all... for the best interest for her, just leave and let be if she really did mean that much to u, after soooo many chances u woulda figured out wat to do
man.... fuck i'd never treat a girl like that... just break up and go separate ways. yes you may have acted like a dick during that time, but she is as guilty for letting herself be blinded as much as she did and wanting to go back when it CLEARLY didn't and will not work. it wont heal shit if you get back together anyways. damage's been dealt. learn to deal with your mistakes.
Hmmm... i have never understood girls who take this kinda behavior from guys... I reckon guys like u should get a chick who can put u back on ur place give u an attitude and mess u up big time lol... seriously... these type of guys always fall into the same pattern....cuz the girls take all ur shit... if u guys get back together now u will probably get back into the same circle within no time if u really love her u either really stop being a dick n she should be less of a softy n treat her well or u another option if u think u cant change.... just let her go before u make her psycho
once you break up, you should just call it quits...you're an asshole to treat her like that after getting back together and then breaking up and getting back together and treat her like that again...
^ yeah i agree.. but it takes two... she should stop taking him back u know.. she just makes it too easy for him....
lol how can u play her like that ? lol shes given u so much chances, and u abuse them like shit, lol seriously, Grrrrrr,
he;s a player and a really BAD bf lor.....maybe he doesnt mean to be....but thats how it seems... You need to talk to ur ex an just tell her how you feel and leave it like that.... it only hurts cos u feel guilty... you just need to get it over an done with....an leave her alone...imo
u guys hate each other to the guts... if u really loved her u wouldn't have treated her like crap... if she loved u she'd still b happy even if ur constantly whipping her... she kept giving u 2nd chances coz she's used to having u around after all these time... n that goes for y u always keep going back to her... but as soon as u guys get back together u pick up right where u left off n start hating each other again n u'll start treating her like crap again... even if u manage to change that'll last for a month max... as corny as this mite sound but sometimes loving someone doesn't equal to pocessing that person... sorry pal...
you sound like me, once upon a time that is. From expereince, its never going to be the same unless you some how make her happy to the point where she completely and honestly forgive yoou. My advice to you is, let her leave you .
