I am in need of some advice wise members of PA.. okay sooo i've never really done this b4. Asking someone out, so that's partially why this is so hard. I've been with another b4 and asked by others but never other way aroundd. So ya here is my little story.. I met this girl at work this summer, ever since i saw her i knew there was something special about her.. I got to know her alot better and we talked as much as we can during work. But with school and all we only work with each other once a week for couple of hours so not much time at all.. The last two weeks she stayed back to talk because I usually wait for another coworker since i live in the same area and i drop them off. I haven't added her on msn because I'm not a big fan of online socializing, and slightly afraid of things related to socializing in general.. I talk to her friend usually on a daily basis but i don't really trust her. Sorry to bore with the story but what should i do? :( I was planning to ask her out, but i'm not shure how, and i'm afraid it would make things awkward if i fail.
If she stayed behind after work just to chat with you probably means something. If she didn't care she'd probably bail after her shift was over. You should just ask. I was in the same position too
If she waited for you, it must mean that she likes your company or is nice and doesn't want you to have to be by yourself. either way, it doesn't seem like she would flat out reject you. so you just gotta grow some balls and ask her.
hmm ya i've got her #, facebook and text occasionally.. ya i'll test my balls and ask this week and if all goes well it'll certainly be a christmas for me to remember
Continue talking to her casually and when the opportunity presents itself, informally ask her out on a date. Make it short and sweet. Don't put too much emphasis on the dating game. Let it happen naturally.
I was in your shoes before .. back in grades school. You care too much about what others think of you or how things will pan out. At the end of the day, no one really cares about you beside yourself. It never hurt to ask but if you don't ask at all, you'll never know the answer.
The more you ponder about it, the more excuses you're going to find to get out of it. Just get a moment with her and ask for her phone number and ask her to hang out if you aren't ready yet. You just have to take that first step, don't bother thinking about those other things, just ask her to hang out and have fun doing some activities together and see if the both of you enjoy each others company.
hah thanks everyone. ya was leadin to that myself the more i think the more i fail. ill just go wit the flow, if its meant to happen it will if not oh wells
this is what u do, say some corny pick up line and start a convo with her then get her number go out for diner, once you hold her hand say " can i hold it forever" she be like "yes" then u ask her to be yo girl
