I have this co-worker who I knew somewhat in college. When we were in college, I barely talked to her. We only have the occasional "how are you" conversation. Ever since we started to work on the same team, we have been talking through the company messenger service. On several occasion she gotten mad at me and played the little cold war with me, which I ignore. Plus she usually brings breakfast in for me or sometimes bake me goods for breakfast. My company have an annual meeting at the main office in San Francisco. My team is part of a big project this year, so we are required to go. Everyone is book their own flight and hotel using the company credit card. So this morning she came up to me and asked if I booked my flight and hotel yet, and of course I said no cause that's the last thing on my mind. So she goes "okay, then I'll book our flight and a room for me and you". I was kind of shocked and before I said anything my boss started to talked to me and the girl walked away. Later on the day I logged on the credit card and I saw the booking of two tickets and a reservation for 1 room. I told her that I think she forgot to book another room and she said it was fine that we share the room plus, our boss told us that we should try to share rooms. The biggest problem is that she has a boyfriend whom I saw her with this weekend. So what should I do?
omg ur in san francisco too... -.- hello! well if u saw her with a bf n u noe she has a bf... then don't expect anything. just go like friends, because that's probably what she "may" be thinking if she does have a bf. then if anything happens later, happens, but don't expect anything... and consider her just a friend/coworker for now. where do u work?
how big is this boyfriend? lol jk make she's try'n to use to to make her bf jealous? that's the first thing that comes to mind. Resist temptation, i'm sure u know of the women are evil thread
not necessarily, it's a group of ppl going... so probably share rooms to reduce cost for the company. and she said TRY to share rooms...
Yes this is the same girl I asked about on the other thread. I don't work in San Fran, my main office is in San Fran, I work in NYC. This has been going on for a while and sometimes she would get mad at me, and I don't say anything to her when she is mad at me. So in end she would come to my office and say "I can't believe you didn't try to "tum ngor" when you know I was mad at you. From what her friend have said in the past, the BF don't even know I worked with her.
No my boss didn't specifically tell her to share the room with me, its more like if you feel comfortable enough sharing rooms with your teammate, try to so we can minimized the cost.
r u currently in a relationship? if u are bring a ton of pics to share with her if she starts get'n too close. Like if she sits next to u after taking a shower or sum'n go like "hey wana see pics of me and my gf?" and... if not, just confront her about it, ask her straight. *w/ puppy eyes* "why u pick'n on me?" lol ^_^ sum'n along them lines, u can make it sound more manly when u say it also throw in questions about her bf, make it obvious you know she has a bf
Then I recall you saying you don't have any interest in her right? Tell her "NO", you don't feel comfortable sharing a room with the opposite sex.
So many choices in this situation... and your choice really depends on which direction you want to go. You want her to rid her BF and go out with you? You want her to leave you alone? You enjoy flirting with her but don't want anything more? etc.. If your choice is #3 and you're really uncomfortable with the idea, tell her so. "I would share a room with you, but I wouldn't want my 50 gf's to get jealous and hunt you down afterwards. So for your safety, I'll be booking my own room. "
i dont find it a big deal, especially if u dont like her... -.- i mean what can she do? rape u?! =P if u don't want to share rooms with her, u can say so... otherwise if its no big deal to u, then just leave it. stop thinking so much... that's what girls do =P
i dont think its anything big... if she likes you then you see that in san fran while you to are in the hotel -lol but since she got a Bf dont expect anything she prolly just see you as a good friend/colleague
I guess I would be lying now if I say I'm not a bit fond of her. You know sometimes people just grow on you.
Well I know for a fact that she has a BF, but lots of times she is dodgy about the BF. She would tell me when she is mad at him for being stupid, being a chauvinistic guy. But other times she change the subject a lot. Like one time she said she couldn't go to a company bar night because she has to go to the BF's home for his mother's birthday. The next day I asked her how it was, she would quickly changed the subject.
