Is 6 months enough time?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by joe2movies, May 9, 2007.

  1. joe2movies

    joe2movies Active Member

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    Is it possible for some1 who u get a long very well, u both can read eachother's mind & have very similar interest to eventually fall when u spend enough time with eachother. Meaning you both giving it a go try to get to know each other further. Is 6 months still too early to have feelings or need even longer than that?
     
  2. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    idk. depends on the girl I guess. but I think guys fall in love faster , also out of love faster :)
     
  3. joe2movies

    joe2movies Active Member

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    Because with this girl she takes her time with everything. Also she's never really fallen for anyone before since she's till very immature & i know she's never experience TRUE FEELINGS
     
  4. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    How would you know that she never experienced true feelings?
     
  5. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    6 months is a looong time imo, i say 6 weeks is betta
     
  6. chickenutbread

    chickenutbread Well-Known Member

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    well, if you have doubts, i'd say no. be sure then move on. you can still be very good close friends without having any romantic interest.
     
  7. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    Aiyar, I'd say it depends on you both. If you both have feelings for each other, what's time to you both? Get to know how she feels about you. It isn't unusual for 2 close people to sprout a relationship. So time isn't of essence here. The question is "does she feel the same way for you? Does she also have feelings for you?"
     
  8. miruru

    miruru New Member

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    6 months is plenty of time imo anyways.

    I moved in with my boyfriend (now my husband) probably about a month into our relationship, we've been together for 7 years now and we're still going strong. You will know if he's the right guy.
     
  9. aznlostboy83

    aznlostboy83 Legendary

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    need more time...6 is not enough
     
  10. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    It depends on both the individuals at hand.
    Some people are more matured than the rest; some are more playful/relaxed.
    You can't really gauge how well you know a person simply by time.
    It depends on the quality of all those times that you spent with the person.

    For example; a couple spent 6 months just going out for movies and dinner but they don't communicate much...
    Another couple spent every evening having a chat at the park for 6 weeks.
    I bet the 6-weeks couple know each other better than the 6-months couple... u know what I mean?

    You'll have to base how well you know the person on your own feeling and opinion. If your heart tells you you're feeling for the person; then I guess you are.
    Since you are asking this question on the forum; you probably are... it just depends on the other party then, so give it a try.
     
    #10 BabyRain, May 10, 2007
    Last edited: May 10, 2007
  11. Xx_Flora_xX

    Xx_Flora_xX Well-Known Member

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    dats true, but sad!
     
  12. xxsweetheartxx

    xxsweetheartxx Well-Known Member

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    I would expext this be posted by a female rather than male.. you're a great guy wanting to get more serious!! gotta give you props =D

    6 months can be a long time, but it really all depends on how old and how mature the relationship is. since you asked, that means you're not completely sure yet? I'd say give it a little more time, then talk to the girl, go with the flow, it'll work out at the end.

    good luck!!!
     
  13. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    it's different in every situation and for every person
    some people need two days
    some people need 6 years


    it once took me two years to fall in love with someone
    but it once took my friend one month (from meeting) to get engaged
     
  14. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Yeah and sometimes it's ironic that the longer time one didn't work out and the shorter time one did.
     
  15. lionheart

    lionheart Well-Known Member

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    i dont think time really matters
    long time doesnt mean good time
    even a couple that have been for 10yrs doesnt mean it is better comparing to a couple that is 10 wks, it all depends how you use that time
    qualtiy>quantity
    for me, i have known my gf for 2 months,friends for like a month and been dating for a month now, and we are really happy together, we are honest and we love each other alot.
    love is not measured by time.
     
  16. evalnekochan

    evalnekochan Well-Known Member

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    depends on how your relationship is
     
  17. it depends on what you want your relationship to be like i spose, 6 months... is plenty to start dating, but for me, if it was to be like moving in or somthing, 6 months is too short of a time...
     
  18. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Just follow ur heart...
    If I do things on impulse; even 1 day is enuf for u to start dating
     
  19. ^ so true! the one day part! xD keke
     
  20. ch0ps7ix

    ch0ps7ix Well-Known Member

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    holly crap 6 months??? do u have a heart of stone or something......u cant put a time frame on thinga like this... only time can tell