is desperate a turn off?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Nov 11, 2007.

  1. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    when someone is acting desperate is it is it always a turn off? is anyone ok with people who are this?


    what about needy people, does that always become a turn off?

    are they the same thing to some people?
     
  2. MissCheekS

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    honestly...for me
    its like one of the biggest turn offs...i dunno...desperate ---> insecure
    cuz if ur not insecure u wont have to be worried and get desperate....
    if a super hot guy would be desperate then id be like (N) nah thnx...its super unattractive

    i dun like needy ppl (ones who always rely on others, cant arrange anything for themselves and ask for too much attention) but i reckon its not the same as desperateness
     
  3. "PLEASEEEEE GO OUT WITH MEEEEEE!! IM BEGGING YOUUUU"

    hahaha i need to find a youtube video clip for that lol
     
  4. Flames

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    Trust her, she's very experience with this, well after 20 break ups :D:D:D
     
  5. MissCheekS

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    lol...the sarcasm bomb?
    dont be hating...its not about experiences...its about personal preference...
    and besides im not that experienced....i just have friends and they rant a lot
     
  6. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    depends on who u meet up///

    really, u part of the casulty? -lol I have never seen angie pic so I dont know, maybe it those tight pants she wears...:)...heard some guys like to put paper bags....etc....but dunno about angie cus I nver saw her face

    haha...u insulted?
     
  7. MissCheekS

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    lol...should i feel cool if id have had 20 break ups?!
    its just not me :p
    but no not insulted adrianc....just clearing things up -lol-detect
     
  8. Kaitou_Kid

    Kaitou_Kid Well-Known Member

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    yes it is a major turnoff because you don't even know if they really like you or whether they just want to have someone to flaunt.
     
  9. skid

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    yeah i think i was like this before, and yes it can be a turn off, depending on how needy they are. I guess when you're starting out, it can be wierd and awkward.
     
  10. gilagila

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    Try not to be show that you are desperate. I think it scares people away regardless male or female.
     
  11. Flames

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    but what happen if you want to let off some steam from been desperate? lol :D
     
  12. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    can't deal with needy ppl. whether it be friendships or a relationship. i like my independence. never have relied on anyone to deal with anything.
    but there r ppl who like that someone needs them. like my one friend, she LOVES the fact that her bf can't spend a second without her and can't make any decisions or do anything without asking her first or better yet, getting her to do it.
     
  13. MissCheekS

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    EW...i hate those guys...im sorry but come on...UR A GUY....call me old fashioned but i just dun like guys who are needy/clingy
    & also about making decisions & asking...dude if i wanted to have a baby boy to take care of i'll just give birth to one
    no need to have a bf thats like that....turn offfffffff
     
  14. lilaznjoker

    lilaznjoker Well-Known Member

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    quick ! someone do her puzzle avatar and post up her real pic!
     
  15. MissCheekS

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    if u do this one u must be REALLLLLY bored lol
     
  16. Flames

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    ^ is not that hard...but I can't be bothered to and even if I bothered, I feel real bad in doing it...make me feel like I'm a stalker or something :S
     
  17. liltigger23

    liltigger23 Well-Known Member

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    hahah i think needy --> desperate --> insecure :)
    so theyre all linked up anyway which leads to unattractiveness..

    honestly.. needy guys / clingy guys / guys-who-smoother-you are such a turn off (personally speaking) --'
    they need to learn the balance.. or just find some needy girl to date :p
     
  18. actually, not necessarily.. from a beginner problem solver stand point, its challenging cuz its behind an animation, hence must take out that frame, and from an artsie stand point, you gotta use photoshop to erase the black lines, and fill in the missing pixels :D
     
  19. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    just go search thru the forum for her pic! its out there somewhere =)
    plus i'm sure u can already see what she looks like from that puzzle heehhe
     
  20. Flames

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    Just do a print screen when it doesn't have the words and then cut and paste and piece them together and you're done lol