OK i got introduced to a girl who just started to work at my friends supermarket just two months ago i tried to talk to her when she was packing the shelves maybe she was too busy packing the shelves but we did chat for a little bit once i think i might be too bold and had scared her off coz she seems to be quite shy she seems to be a nice girl but not very talkative my friend said she we can start off being normal friends first but because i have to work at night shifts, i stopped going to my friends supermarket for about 10 days and just after that i heard she is now in a relationship with a colleague of hers and since that we hadnt talked to each other at all so now that i feel i have let an opportunity gone away...... i thought i should try to chat up with this girl again and kinda 'take her away from the boyfriend' i mean i dont even know that guy or who he is or should i just move one and find another one i know it doesnt sound right....... but isnt this kinda thing never fair
Seeing as how you said "we did chat for a little bit once" and you were just barely normal friends, i don't think it's right for you to get involved in her relationship..unless you two were getting close to begin with. But even if you guys were (which I don't think is the case here) it's still wrong for you to do that. Yeah it may be like a competition..but honestly if she does end up going to you wouldn't her heart be considered flimsy?
yea, go for it, cause dating between co-workers usually never work out or end up bad. just remember this... you reap what you sow... you sow what you reap... at first you lie and then you cheat... all that you've done will haunt you in your sleep.. what comes around, goes around.. Karma has ways, for you to be found.. Merry Fuckin' Christmas..
dood... it's less than 3 months... anything pretty much goes... lol... nothing is even remotely serious till 3 months... she's in the dating stages unless she's still young and fantasizes about "the one"... go for it...
This I agree with, but if the woman is married, its off limits for me. This also I agree with, if you are going to take this girl away from her man, which I think will be absolutely close to impossible unless you are like a celebrity or a rich mofo. You will need to know how to keep her, or she will do the same again. And think about this... If you can take this girl away from her man, and she willingly accepts your offer, think of the next man that does the same thing? If she is that easy going.
why on earth do you want a girl that will cheat on her boyfriend or husband? and why would that girl want someone who does not acknowledge commitment? if you can get her, so can anyone else. Well if you get yourself killed or get AIDs you only have yourself to blame.
It's not like she's in the relationship for that long, as far as you know it, it's only a rumor. You just ask her and see what the situation is with her, find out how series she is with that person or if it's true. Talk to her and find out where she's at and you decide if it's worth going farther.
Here's my philosophy: "If there's no ring on her finger, she's fair game." Most people are initially outraged when they hear it but will not disagree. You can choose to adopt this if you wish but as our other pa friends have touched upon, unfortunately it is a double edged sword. Live by the sword, die by the sword my friend.
^yup, agreed .. see no ring means a go for it. Frankly, there's NO right or wrong .. if you like someone, then go for it. Of course, you gotta ask yourself if she is worth it?
