i was curious if it is tradition for Chinese, Korean, and Japanese people to only date people of their own race. maybe i know the answer to my question already (yes) but im curious as to why and how strict it is... i know it is subjective for the most part, and i would never generalize a whole race or nation, but i can't help but notice that it is rare to see a Asian girl or guy dating someone of another race.... UNLESS they grew up here in canada (then its fairly common) i think Asian girls are very beautiful, but almost impossible to approach.... is it cause im not Asian?
a lot of times when an asian girl dates guys of another race, its because they have been white washed/westernised down quite a bit already (most of the time anyway). Its difficult for the girl to talk with guys closer and knowledgeable of the culture, so she would opt to go for what she feels she fits in best/better, in canadian/white society. this is one perspective, and in no way the answer to all situations. one of the only reasons i can think of for an asian girl dating a guy of another race, is if she were a mainlander trying to get out of china, and using the husband/marriage as an excuse to emigrate :rolleyes2:.
I always thought it was because their parents told them to go out with asian guys, so she does the opposite to spite them lol. However, I must say that it depends on where you go to school.
wow, so youre saying that the only reason a Asian girl would date someone of another race is to either use him or cause she was "whitewashed" well i certainly hope that is only your racist opinion and not the truth... its amazing that someone your age can have the mentality of a 80 year old
i've been told that i stick quite strictly to tradition, so no surprise that someone would say such I'm not surprised that you find that CBC girls have higher tendencies to date white guys. Heck, back in 8th grade I was pretty banana myself, and would fall into the same situation. Thing is though, if the girl decides to set her own boundaries (or if she is taught those boundaries through her environment ), then that is the beginning of her limiting herself to a select group/race. i think its not a matter of "tradition", but more of a matter of valuing their heritage and preserving it.
environmental impact which could fall under white washed, cultural differences, personal choices, i believe its always asian girls with white guys instead of the other way because its the media's problem. Now bring on angie
well i have no problem hooking up with hot girls of any other race.... but if what u say is true... i guess u still a virgin?
lol. i will say it once again - if you love someone, you don't care what race he/she is. very simple. it's also not common for Polish (Caucasian , here in Poland) to date other races... you just love someone...
Obviously one of the two statements is false; what then, is the purpose of this thread? If you're going to ask serious questions, then expect serious answers. If you can't take honesty, then don't ask. For the record, I was about to say the same thing, and I'm not going to sugar coat it like Kdotc. That is, being Asian or not may have nothing to do with it; you may be ugly as a rat's ass, hence girls don't find you attractive. But in the scheme of things, that isn't the worse thing in life (you could be blind, dickless, or even both). And take it from someone who wasn't born with any Hollywood looks either, you make the best of it with what you have, and you do eventually get what you want. Or look at it this way, the law or percentages are going to be on your side. That is, you'll eventually get lucky because in life, nobody ever gets completely shut out (no matter how bad they are). Just one look at all the hot babes with lame assed slobs would bear this out. And at Xib, your new AV? I mean, Damn... but that's gotta be the worst case of herpes I've ever seen on a chick...
I have been summoned! .... .... AHHHHHH!!!! THATS ONE SCARY AVI!!! ><" 2 hour late...would have so flamed that guy....stupid troll just starting a topic to reject someones opinion... Well I think a person hangs out with other races or same races depends on how they look at thing and how they grow up headbang2 Someone with non judgmental view would hang out with people from different races and not just there own. headbang2 hahahaha how come I expect you to be here
They are not impossible to approach but you should know how to approach them. It all depends on the nurture and nature of the person...since i was a kid,my mum keeps explaining to me that i should marry only Asians.
well i agree %100... it shouldnt matter at all where someone is from... as long as people love eachother. its a coincidence too that youre Polish cause so am i :sp_ike_d: but i grew up and live in toronto. my mother always wanted me to hook up with a polish girl, but i think its stupid to do that... to hook up with someone only based on where theyre from... or any other reason other than love the thing is though that im not surprised when old people are prejudiced against racial mixing... its when i see young people living in multicultured countries that are prejudiced (some even posted in this thread), is what surprises me. i guess there will never be a shortage of bigots. and when u mentioned thats its not common to see people dating other races... i think that has alot to do with the fact that Poland (or China or Korea etc..) is not a multiculture country.... meaning that 95% of all people living there are Polish... whereas Canada is strictly an even mix of all races.... so its totally common to see mixed race dating.... which is pretty awesome. but i cant help but notice that its alot harder to meet a Asian girl compared to a girl of any other race... and that is why i posted this thread... it seems that they are more shy or something (which is something that I like in a girl, but its almost like too shy for some of them... i dont know....) so thats why i wonder if Chinese Korean and Japanese girls are brought up to only date their own... i mean: obviously almost all nationalities and races do that (we will all always have that grandma grandpa, mom or dad that tells you to), but it seems that Asian (Especially Chinese and Korean) people are more strict with following that old-world mentality and ofcourse there is a difference between someone thats just not into a certain type of race... thats just their subjective opinion.... but for someone to think that a whole race of people is not into this or is into that...or that people should only date their own race... well thats just prejudiced --- BTW, this is my last post because i was BANNED (as i was typing this) by the admin B-LEE.. who is a racist coward no reason and no warning (although im sure its cause im not Asian) my original name here was RECTEC and am the OP (i had to change my IP just to make this last post) he didnt ban the people that attacked me, and when i defended myself (even though i did it with no swearing or rudeness) he banned me simply because Im not Asian. well i dont want to be part of a forum thats controlled by a racist looser anyways. im just glad that most of Asian people are not as prejudiced as the looser b-lee. although i am somewhat surprised how easily some people (old men trapped in boys bodies) get offended about me asking a simple question.... i guess they are somehow threatened (how pathetic is that) that a white guy likes Asian girls... anyways, i will always love beautiful Chinese, Korean and Japanese girls!! rectec
but dont u think that is subjective? or that is should be? i mean its one thing if the girls just likes her or race type of guys... thats totally cool. but if she does it just cause she thinks she has to or cause her parents will look down on her because of it... thats not a good reason. everyone should be able to do date whom they want... no race restrictions
ok one more before im banned again... i just saw this fools post so i couldnt resist firstoff, i reject no ones opinion unless its a racist or generalization statement (and there have been a couple) ofcourse it should depend on the person whether they want to date someone of another race.... it should ONLY depend on them and no one else... thats the point ive been trying ti make the whole time. it should definately not be dependant on some old-world mentality or racist generalization of some people that think they decide what others should do (like some people in this thread think it matters what they think that the girls should do or not do)..... you can only decide for yourself... no one else... so if your sister or friend want to go out with a non-asian guy? tough... theres nothing u can do btw, thanks for the flaming offer but sorry.... im only into girls... (but im sure you will find yourself a boyfriend if u try hard enough) and i am sort of surprised about your choice of nickname...flaming... i think most gay people dont like that word as it is a derogatory word for a gay person (like the word fag) but you seem to embrace it.... do u even know what it means? good luck with hunt for boys u flamer
