is it considered harassment or sexual harassment and can i get charged or go to jail if one chit chats with random girls at london drugs, bus stops, chapters, on the street walking down, malls, ans start saying stuff like-hey how are you, your cute,i like ur jacket, i like ur hairstyle and color or ur hair-i should get my hair dyed too, whats your name, my name is joey, where are you going, what did you do on the weekend, can i have your number or email and we can hang out---pretty much making small talk while shes walking down the street, at the bus stop, browsing at london drugs, reading a magazine at chapters.what if one does it a lot but not to the same girls,but different girls. sometimes i follow them so i can catch up and chat up with them and see if they chat with me and if so i give my number out or ask for thiers. i dont follow them home though, just so i can get close to chat em up and get digits or give my card out. more like trying to get her digits or gives his out and trying to get a date. what is harassemnt or sexual harassment
wow.. it's harassment if she feels uncomfortable that you are following/talking to her. if she doesn't want to talk to you I hope you don't keep trying. god, talk about desperate. you better be damn smoking hot to be this confident and talk to every girl you see. ugh
harassment if the girl(s) think you're uninteresting, otherwise it would be ok. i'd suggest you to change the place where you do it from time to time, otherwise people might think you're a stalker.
^ That It's okay if you are hot and they find you interesting, otherwise they think you are a creep. And following them, sounds like stalking to me
if its multiple chicks... then its flirting... although if you're always doing it in the exact same places, like, if you're standing in an aisle at the local london drugs from 9:00-11:00 AM hitting on any girl that comes by, then moving on to the closest bus stop where you sit from like 12:00-2:00 and then moving on to the mall for the rest of the day... you might have a serious problem. London drugs and bus stops seem like damned poor places to meet people. If a girl is at london drugs, she is probably there to buy some shit and then get going, and seriously, no one wants to talk to some strange guy at a bus stop, its just scary bro. If you want to meet a girl, go to a bar or club, where girls are expecting to be hit on. Also, you have a card? Is it like "Hi, my name is Joey, I like your eyes, can I eat them? Call me at 525-5555?" Honestly, it sounds like you have overthought your flirting methodology to the point where it has definitely become stalking... shit like this is supposed to be a bit more spontaneous. In terms of whether it is harassment or sexual harassment. Harassment by itself is characterized by multiple incidents of unwelcome behavior on the same individual. If you are following the same chick around or, if you somehow get a girl's number and continuously text her in a disturbing manner, it might be construed as harassment. Sexual harassment is a little more specific, and usually its localized in the workplace. Again, sexual harassment usually has to involve more than a single advance. It also needs a sexual component. As long as you don't go to your local bus stop tomorrow and see a nice girl and whip out your dick and tell her to suck it, you're probably going to be ok. My only main point of advice for you is to calm the fuck down and realize you sound like one damned creepy motherfucka.
lol it may not be considered harassment, but it's damned well annoying for them. if a girl is sitting at the bus stop, and some random dude starts small talking her, you come off as a weirdo, and she'll do wtf she can to get away from you. if there's nothing that triggers the talking, she's thinking, why the hell is this guy talking to me, get away from me, freak like fearless said.. you're over thinking what you're doing, and you're trying too hard, to the point that it scares the shit out of the people you talk to
Uhh, why are you picking up on girl randomly ? Do you feel weird if...let say someone walk on a street, and a stranger walk toward them, or follow " to catch up" AND ask for phone number? Now, think about it...what are the chances you actually can get their number ? If you catch a prostitute, she may give you her number instantly, or upon agree can DO it on spot ? Do not do it...
more like a creepy stalker who is desperate for girls, sexual harassment's another level. some might like it cus they're think ure 'different' and 'brave,' some might think ure just a weirdo and will walk away right away, some just ignore u like they ignore those sales people, some might kick u away, etc.
Well if you say one or two things to her and she ignores you take a hint.... if you keep on going with the questions when she's unresponsible or shes avoiding u then it's haressment.. You could nicely compliment ppl's hair just dont be like I like ur ass and ur boobs are awesome... lol eh.. you get the point.
