Jealousy

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Moka, Dec 28, 2008.

  1. Moka

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    do you get jealous easily? how do you feel if your bf/gf talks to his/her female friends? even keep in-touch with his/her ex's??
     
  2. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    Nah I don't get jealous, jealousy occurs when you are insecure about your relationship and you are afraid someone else can take your place.

    I still keep in touch with my ex's.
     
  3. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    usually no....but I get jealous easily XDD
     
  4. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    no , cos i trust the guy...
    plus i dont have nothing to worry about cos in the end, he's with me. not her lol
     
  5. Moka

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    Yes i get what you mean about insecure, is there ways to not be jealous??

    even if the ex cheated on you? you would stillbe friends?
     
  6. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    yeah i do.
     
  7. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    Not if you cheat on them first ;)
     
  8. Moka

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    funny how many ppl says why jeaous? hes with me, past is the past. i used ot say those things too. but now i found it hard to say than done.

    do you think there is still chance/time to makeup for your mistake or might as well end this one and learn from your mistake on the next relationship?
     
  9. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    well. if u both wanted to make it work, then of course there's a chance...
    but its guna be really hard if its only one thats making the effort...
     
  10. MissCheekS

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    abt regular female friends... depends on situation... best thing is to meet his female friends n c la.... im sure u will feel better after uve met them... at least it helps for me...

    i can imagine ud feel threatened or jealous when a guy keeps in contact with his ex....
    i mean...its natural to feel a bit insecure...luckily i never had to deal with that
    as long as ur bf is honest to u there shouldnt b too much to worry about...
    when he tries to hide it then u should be worried....
    sometimes exes have a good bond... but they arent together anymore for a reason right....
     
  11. Moka

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    honest? what if you found out he tried to hide stuffs from you? like the reason is like ooh i know youre going to be mad or i know how youre going to react and thats why i didnt tell you. how do you ppl feel if you found out your bf/gf hide something from you? tho the intention MAY be good. dont you feel like if he/she is able to hide something in the first place, what else is he/she hiding?
     
  12. MissCheekS

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    ^yea.... it is a bit dodgy... it happened to me before... because the guy thought it was just something innocent n didnt want me to worry abt it...n when i feel theres something fishy i always digggggg....n i did find out lol...

    i know he didnt like the other girls n it was something innocent but i just explained to him it made me feel as if he had something to hide n ask him not to do it anymore...
     
  13. cyn029

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    I do get jealous easily. YIKES. Time to figure out why! haha