Jessica and her true love Jessica was either having impossible targets or characteristics that didn’t work well with marriage as the reason to her not finding her prince charming. Jessica still believed that those who work out are fated and she would not impose a character change to suit her dream of getting married. If she’s not fated, she would still feel fortunate for being able to choose and would live alone happily. Witnessing the marriage of many female colleagues, Jessica admitted that she once had the desire to get married quickly. Even though there was no lack of suitors, Jessica still remained single. She smiled, “Many guys would prefer girls like the ‘damsel in distress’ but I believe that there would be someone who like my independence. I had the urge to get married immediately once and was nonchalant about it at another instance in time. I have had several female friends who had bad experiences in their marriages. I am fortunate that I am given a choice. Actually, I do not set high standards and only wish for somebody who can communicate with me and I have the ‘feel’ towards. I would not look at his financial state. Haha! I would have been married if I had looked at the money only!” Jessica also mentioned, “I have confidence that I will meet my prince charming but I am also mentally prepared that I may be unable to find one. I am not very worried about it. It would be sweet if I could share my experiences with another person. On side consideration, he would also be able to take care of me. I would not be rushing it and did not set any deadline for it. I would leave it as per normal. Since young, I would never plan for the future fir my work and relationship. When everybody else are planning for their future when I was still schooling, I didn’t put too much thought into it.” Many people felt that their happiness diminish as they aged. Jessica felt that everyone would experience so as things would get more complicated as people grew up. Hence, there would be more troubles. She felt that we need to be more optimistic. She asserted, “I went along with my heart for the first 20 years of my life and would be unhappy whenever I was encountered with troubles. After I had sorted out my thoughts, I found out that the presence of unhappiness is to emphasize the value of happiness. I would face a problem with optimism and hope that everything would be better.” Magazines scans by: Mrs. Luk @ http://bravenet.jessicahsuan.com Translation credits: siaozhabor @ http://bravenet.jessicahsuan.com
I don't care how good she puts it .. this or that .. everyone wants be cared for and loved ... shares their experience with someone special .. perhaps she hasn't found that person cuz of her own invisible standard .. I think she cares just as much in terms of the guy's financial status. I am sure she will not go out with a guy who is in financial ruin cuz then, he becomes a burden for her. Independence .. hmmm I dunno about that ... then you don't need people to take care of you then .. why she insists that he still able to take care of me ..lol
