Ever since Highs and Lows <雷霆掃毒> aired, Kate Tsui’s (徐子珊) popularity is growing immensely and her career is at an all time high. Fame has not made Kate’s quest for true love any easier, in which she yearns to get married like most women. Rumors about Kate’s relationships with Leon Lai (黎明), and Bosco Wong (黃宗澤) were featured in recent tabloids. In real life, 33-year-old Kate has not been lucky in her love life. She revealed that there has been quite a few men pursuing her but she still has not met the right man yet. Kate does not wish to be labeled as a “leftover bachelorette” and she is willing to go through matchmaking events to find her true love. Matchmaking Dates Kate used to believe in fate and she felt that the right person will come along in her lifetime. She had refused her friend’s offer to introduce men for her to meet. However, she now realizes she is not getting any younger and really wants to have a romantic relationship. Many of her friends are married and have children. Kate is also ready to find that special person to settle down with. Kate said, “Many friends are worried about me because it ‘s hard for me, being in the entertainment industry, to meet men. They know I don’t like to date men in the entertainment circle, so they worked very hard to hook me up with men.” Kate admitted she went out a few times with her friend to meet men and even attended 5 matchmaking events to find that special person. After going out to dinner with a few men from the matchmaking event, she eventually lost touch with them. “The most memorable experience was when I went to Taiwan to a matchmaking dinner. My brother-in-law was trying to hook me up with his co-worker who is an American. He traveled very far to meet me, while I traveled to Taiwan to meet him. Although he has good qualities, we both didn’t feel any chemistry. Long distance relationships usually don’t work out anyways, so it ended before it could start.” Willing to Give Up Career for Love Kate had once revealed she is willing to give up her acting career for love. Unfortunately, she has not found that special man worth this kind of sacrifice yet. Kate feels that it is difficult for her to meet the right man due to many romantic rumors revolving around her. The reason that Kate does not wish to date anyone from the entertainment industry is that she does not want to see her husband in any intimate scenes; she wants him all for herself. Her criteria for the perfect man does not include good looks. The most important qualification is that the person needs to be older than her and mature enough to tolerate the odd quirks in her personality. Kate admitted that she is very emotional and she was not unable to control her emotions in past relationships. When she was feeling down, she would hide herself or suddenly walk away. Kate thinks it takes a very special person to accept and tolerate her. Not Looking for a Rich Man After attending quite a few matchmaking events, Kate had no luck in meeting Mr. Right. Many people will think she is looking for a wealthy man to marry. Kate has no intention of marrying into a rich family, because she would not know how to handle the in-laws. She feels it is too complicated for her, and she would rather look for someone who has a similar background. Most importantly, Kate is looking for someone who truly loves her and is willing to take care of her. Creds; Ming Pao
