So my mom told me to do something but i didn't get it so i told her to explain again, and i was still clueless then she just went in a mood with me going "oh jeez im never gona ask you ppl to do things for me again".. i was like WTF!?!? and i said "it's not i DON'T wana help u, it's i don't understand" wtf....... god if she's gona ask me to do sth then at least explain to me properly what it is!!!!! *rant rant rant* :Talktohand: i'm gona make some toast now
lol? i mean i kind of get where your coming from... is it like a communication problem where like she's speaking a language you barely understand? or is like shes just horrible at explaining? but yeah its pretty frustrating when you cant really understand what others are trying to say
Wow, if this is the case best solution would probably be to record whats she is saying and then replay it many times and try understand what they are saying. Also sometimes what they say isnt the same as what their thinking
yes its painfully frustrating. misunderstanding or the lack of language to understand is really annoying. not much you can do, but on your part just dont make the whole situation get any worse and go berserk if the other is getting annoyed. be calm and patient i suppose.
"oh look, 3 different colours. 3 colours, errmm whats brown in Cantonese? hai ng may fui sik?" ^^ ~~ I smiled
rofl. but yea back to the thread, i think best thing to do is to remain calm, has happened to me before.
communication breakdown. just ask her again what was it that you wanted me to do. BTW how do you say brown in Cantonese??? chocolate color?
MISCOMMUNICATION.. you know whats fucked up.. if you have a bloody 5 hours trip to london and the one that is supposed to pick you up doesnt even know where to pick you up. and then she thinks shes so smart and sent you walking to a station.. me : "which station" she: "the coach station" *walks to coach statio* *sees 3 coach stations* me : "which station" she : "the bloody coach staion!" me : "which of the bloody 3 station" *cursing to eachother* and yea it took me half an hour before we found eachother.. AND SHE WAS AT THE TRAIN STATION! GODDAMNIT! also costed me a fortune to call her... wouldnt you hate it either?!?! HEY AR MUI?!?!?!?! *POKE POKE* :rant:-madsign1
yep communication issues... remember that wen friend got to china and then meant to try to meet up and taxi driver dropped him off somewhere else and took me 45mins of walking and on the fone to find him >.< doesn't help wen can't read and international mobile calls r expensive =( well look on the bright side now, don't have to do the work ever again then u can't get told off lol
out all the people those people are to busy >.< how the hack did i know mui has sucha bad direction sense >.< and also with the underground... damn.. even i got the hang of it after 3 hours.. and mui... wrong direction and then we had to take the bus! XD
LOL Puhahahahahah!! Sowieeee lorrr!! :( Dun ask me to pick u up next time then!! GrRRrrrRrrr And yooooooooo i told u lots to walk but took the bus sooo there!! And Natsuuuu u are a bullyyy and a traitorrr!! T_T LOL@ 'Chocolate colour' -lol But yehh... If i dun understand my parents i jus ask until i understand ^^
