Ever feel like time is passing by and you are wasting your life away? You see people with their goals and ambitions in life, yet you sit there wondering what you should do...
you've come this far haven't you.sure. u compare yourself to ppl u presume are doing better than u. but wat about the million others that you are doing better than.goals and ambitions are seen differently by everyone. and son..they change with time. focus on u, not them.
wow knoc... that was actually a pretty thorough well thought out reply.. thing is though.. the people who are doing worst than you are way the uff on the other side of the planet.. have you ever felt like that tho??
hey man. its a forum. you never know who's behind the name and what they can say. sure. on the other side of the planet. but still people. they still got ambitions and goals of their own.they are still people in the end. you have an opportunity they don't have. you have access . simple as that. you have the chance to make something with the access you have. think of it this way.you sit here and feel sorry for yourself and it goes down hill. the more you sit and the more you think why, the harder it is to get out of that hole. its all in front of you for that taking. an opportunity most don't have.and u think goals and ambitions means that someone is doing better than you. its one thing having them. its another to go after them.remember that now young buck. we can have ambitions and what not all over the place. they mean shit unless you go after them.and i'm sure u've heard this all before.
unfortunately son. that is the kicker. it takes time to find out what you want.life's shit like that. there is no solution. for some its easy, and for others it takes time.its happens to all of us. just differently.sounds like you need to pause for a bit and figure out what you want.and that no one can help with.only you know what you want right, or will eventually know.don't forget. goals and ambitions vary. do you really think its good to have goals and ambitions? Does that mean you are going somewhere in life?...interesting...no...
yea. just keep doing your daily stuff. you will eventually know what you want to do. rather than taking time and have get a headache over it, just let things come naturally
After a few trial and errors, you'll eventually know where you want to head to. Take it easy. Research a bit more about things that are available to you, it'll help ^^
I scared myself with these thoughts when I was 7. -Shudders- I started to think that I had no time left and I'm wasting my life away sitting there... assorting books.
haha, yeah its not something to be proud of but i suppose we can learn from it. if we fall down and don't get up then thats failure, but if we get up and try again then its a stepping stone. however,life is only as hard as we make it.
well assuming u've failed, u still got plenty of time to learn and make up for it plus looking at other ppl's success, u never know how much they failed b4 they got to where they are la
I've felt like that for ages. It's like I'm just an outsider watching me live my life the wasted way it is, just like seeing things through a thick layer of translucent material and everything sounds muffled. Yup I'm watching on and yet there's no motivation in me to make any changes. =) But ya, sooner or later, I know I really have to sit down and think it through.. what I really want. BUT for now, I'll just continue to watch my life, I guess. =)
Yes! I haven't worked in the past month. It's not that I can't get a job, it's that I have no idea what I want to do, and because of that I don't feel qualified for any job. People tell me that because I have a math degree and a computer science degree, there are a vast number of jobs I could do. That makes it even worse, I have too many options. I have no interests when it comes to what kind of work I want to do. I could be worse off though.
