People go in and come out of relationship all the time. However, when you're come out of a long, long serious relationship, it's especially painful. Do you think people or love or both changed over time? You could argue that it's the people since one would assume that for a relationship to last; say 5 years, the love is clear and stable so it's the people who changed. You could also say that it's the love that changed over time since the needs differ in different stage of our life. To further clarify that .. kinda one point, it's the physical satisfaction and at another time, it's the mental connection. Hope that makes sense. What do ya'll think?
People change themselves for the person who they're in love with. Once they're in love with each other, both will change so they can accept each other. [Love changed] But once the love is gone, a person's heart have changed and this will eventually cause changes mentally and emotionally. [People changed (Love is gone)] So I say love change or people change depends on the situation as well as other factors.
the loves changes for sure... there's no way u can keep a passion burning forever... the more u c that person the sooner the passion change into something else... if u can cope with that person after the change happens then u'll have a marriage... if not... figure out y it didn't work out last time n work harder next time
I agree... to make relationships work the process of love grows in the sense that it is always "new" in a sense to keep the passion alive. People change to adapt the other to make things work. To have a meaning full relationship with anyone both sides can not be selfish or too giving, its that perfect balance of compensating does wonders...
well kind of both things change... i mean everyone changes. its a part of life so... with the person changing, the love is changing too whether its growing apart or getting closer =/
Love doesn't exist in a vacuum. It's the people's feelings that's constantly changing. Nothing lasts forever. Even the sun will die one day.
I think the person changes that might lead to love change. because if both of them are not changing at the same pace and directions, their thoughts would be different, and they would want different things that leads to lost of love.
I personally find that they change because they want you to dislike them. Since they doesn't have the same feeling for you as to him/her. They are trying to be cold-blooded. But deep down, they don't change. Because i always believe a Leopard never changes its spot.
normally i would say both way. people change for the better, beccasue of the person that they are with. But we really cant say, I think both things goes together. I mean when u are with someone, u want them to see your better sides, and u want to change your old habits, and same goes for the other partner too. Love changes people yet people change for love!
I don't think people ever really change. Your feelings for someone may change, but the person you are is something that is difficult to change.
