MAJOR TURN-OFFS!

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mint_T, Apr 26, 2006.

  1. mint_T

    mint_T Well-Known Member

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    List some of your major turn-offs from the opposite sex.

    My turn-offs:
    lazy
    dirty
    arrogant
    cheapskate
    clingyness
    over-emotional
    mean
     
  2. shy

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    bad breath
    untrimmed nosehair
    shakes his leg
    burping
    cheapskate
    inconsiderate
    all talk no action
    no immediate goals
    lack of manners
    bad grammar
    short tempered
    little or no sense of humor
    road rage
    being TOO available
    complaining/whining
    white socks with dress shoes
    controlling
    disgruntledness
     
  3. AVANT

    AVANT Well-Known Member

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    Psychotic
     
  4. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    ugly...haaaaa...
     
  5. signupmember

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    i saw a girl pick her nose the other day...definitely a turn off! At least use a tissue or something.
     
  6. peachey

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    inconsiderate
    rude
    mean
    irresponsible
    immature
    overpowering!!!

    Someone I know likes to watch reality shows, but her bf made her stop watching them. He hated those shows and he was overpowering and want everything to go his way. The girl gets really scared of watching them now 'cos she remembers how she was treated in that debate.

    That was so horrible of him.

    Me and my friends were there during that debate.
     
  7. pisha

    pisha Well-Known Member

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    hmm....I could go on and on but I guess bad sense of style and dumb.
     
  8. shadow Thi3f

    shadow Thi3f Well-Known Member

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    White socks with dress shoes? damn girl. i wont wear black socks unless its a formal event, but when im at the clubs with my dress shoes on i normally wear white socks. No ones ever going to see your socks.
    I can see why being too available is a turnoff. there is no challenge involved.

    my turn offs: overly dramatic and personal baggage. Dont be bringing your problems into my house and dont create drama just because. And dont get me started on Fake b1tches.
     
  9. shy

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    Ugh, some people are so controlling. Does that guy control what underwear the girl wears as well as when she can go to the restroom and what kind of toilet paper she has to use??

    The controlling type is a HUGE turnoff.

    I must add bad hygiene to the list as well...
     
  10. controlling or taking charge? see thas what I dont get when some girls want a guy to take charge and decide things for them or open doors for them, but when the guy finally does it, they say he's too controlling??
     
  11. mint_T

    mint_T Well-Known Member

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    hmm...well, taking charge is not a bad thing. A lot of girls hate it when guys are indecisive. For example, letting her decide on EVERYTHING in the relationship. But in the case that peachey and shy are talking about, the guy practically controlls EVERY single aspect of the girl's life, and not giving her any freedom or room to breath. My sister once went out with this guy who was controlling. He wouldn't let her wear certain types of clothing, and talk to certain ppl of whom she's been friends with even BEFORE she met him! He said he was only doing it for her own good, but we all know it's bullcrap. Eventually, she couldn't stand him anymore and they broke it off.
     
  12. signupmember

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    Hmmm this is how i see it, both guys and girls have no idea the difference between taking charge and being in control. A girl might think that when a guy takes charge and makes all the decisions they feel secure like "im being taken care of" but then there are guys that make personal decisions for the girl and control how they should live. I think both guys and girls mix this up and it can screw up any relationship.

    Its like losing ones individualism, being treated like a robot and not being able to think and do things by choice. I mean everyone should be able to have the right to decide want they want to do, but somethings it would be nice to have someone to guide u through life and be able to help u decide what to do.
     
  13. goo wak jai

    goo wak jai Well-Known Member

    I've got loads, but my main ones just have to be ugly, smelly, or no sense of humour.
     
  14. good ish -clapclap. Here's another turn-off people that stuuhh stuhh suhh stuuh suuhh suh stuuuu ddderrr... cuz the suspense -dead me.
     
  15. driver2250

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    loud mouth.
    ppl have no manner.
    wannabes
     
  16. tamagodaisuki

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    SMOKING!!!!
     
  17. W-inD

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    ugly
    nottin in common
    too sticky
    ugly
    bad breath
    controling

    this is jus a lil.. i haev way more turn-offs-_-2
     
  18. bbloveuz

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    immature
     
  19. ruckusinthahouse

    ruckusinthahouse Well-Known Member

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    Mine would be self-centeredness, Material/superficial things are more important, not caring for others, and many more.
     
  20. hawaiifreak

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    My major turn-offs:

    Inconsiderate for others
    Mean
    Full of Himself
    Too Talkative
    Whimpy
    Immature
    Lazy
    No respect for Elders