Married but living separately

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by sensei, Nov 8, 2009.

  1. sensei

    sensei Member

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    Is it possible to be married but living separately?
    Any foreseen problems / issues that will arise with it?
     
  2. iris

    iris Well-Known Member

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    why would you get married if you are not going to live together? is it for citizenship status?

    that's the only reason why I would see anyone would do it like this. People have done it, but it'll probably raise a lot of questions.

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    oh i guess if you guys have work in different parts, then I guess it would be alright, but you're not giving any specifics so I'm assuming you guys are in the same region.
     
  3. if your in this situation then something has gone wrong, not saying it doesn't happen though
     
  4. sensei

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    No no it's not me. It's my best friend. He's currently working overseas and girlfriend back in hometown. GF doesn't like there and not going to move. He's at lost and was wondering what advice should I give him?
     
  5. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    lol the "friend" situation :shifty:

    in that case, it's real easy it break it off, esp overseas, just not the same anymore. advice is: either he keeps convincing, or the two have to compromise and settle down. otherwise why keep wasting time if u dont share the same goal?
     
  6. Ahh a FRIEND..... :shifty: ohhhhh :whistling:
     
  7. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    I personally don't believe in LDR .. too many posts about it already .. anyway, if it's on the gf/bf stage, break it off cuz things will change over time. If it's marriage stage, i think the wify or hubby should go where ever afford them the opportunities for work. There is no compromise when it comes to building a family where $$ is an issue.
     
  8. oh... my friend signed all the paper work to get married so that his girl can stay in the country... but they didn't have the matrimony and lived apart coz their family thought they weren't ready to be a real married couple... 2 yrs later they ended up in divorce... *sigh*

    the funny thing was they never got checked up from the department of immigration -shrug
     
  9. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    ^ that depends on where you live .. in the US .. there's a high chance .. ppl here are very cautious about it especially since the downturn of the econ .. lol .. who wanna come to the us anyway these days .. didn't you read that amer ppl are entering china illegally .. lol
     
  10. lol... yeah i read that article u posted...

    normally the immigration is pretty strict over here in australia too... i don't know why my friend didn't get checked...

    and a few weeks ago this asian chick applied to marry a grandpa and got denied :p
     
  11. ab289

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    I wonder ... if the girl is in another continent; is it still cheating if he satisfy his sexual needs with another girl? hehe ...
     
  12. to a girl yes... even a kiss is cheating according to them...

    but i understand to a lot of guys (not all) it's not... having sex with a girl who he isn't emotionally attached to is like masturbating only better...
     
  13. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    ^ wow .. is that you talking, dawn? or your bf faking your ass?? lol ..
     
  14. ^ lol... what do u think?? does it sound like me talking or some random guy hacked into my account??
     
  15. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    ^ if i knew, i wouldn't have asked .. lol

    one night stand as masturbation except better .. wtf .. that's beyond a girl's view there buddy .. more like a guy talking to me. not the sensitive and responsible dawn that i chatted w/ .. lol
     
  16. ^ i was only saying in a guy's point of view... like i said a girl would flip if she found out her guy kissed another chick...
     
  17. how about jus coppin' a feel? :shifty: :D
     
  18. ^ ask your woman... i wanna know the answer too -lol
     
  19. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    maybe dawns just in a bad mood...
    cos andy's sleeping with someone else =P
     
  20. :naughty:-hump riddle me this though... would you consider watching porn cheating?