I need ideas on how to get my gf to believe me and trust me again. I started flirting and now she doesn't believe me for shit. I just don't understand how she can flirt but i can't. But that's not the problem now. ~I need to get her back in my arms before anything else! I've tried giving her a surprise present already.. didn't work. I need more meaningful ways. I just don't know what to do. I love her. I shouldn't have flirted with other girls in the first place i know.. but if you knew what i went through, you'd understand, well maybe. No matter what though, I'm still in the wrong. And i need to make it up to her. What can i do? She wants to give up. -cry2
Trust is hard to gain and easy to lose. You can flirt, just don't let your other part to know about it. ^ Useless comment, Anyways, you cannot buy trust back (if it only were that easy ), you need to rebuild it again. Women always hold a grudge against you if you did something wrong in the past. ]Even if they say that they've forgave you, they will always have a backup of it stored in the back of their head If she had put more effort in your relationship, she will eventually/or most likely forgive you. Since she had wasted a lot of time, money and work and will not let it go this easily, unless she has noticed its bottomless pit In short: there isn't a 100% proof solution to solve your problem, just rebuild the trust bit by bit. If you tried your best and she still dumps you, just remember that it is her lost and there are more fishies in the sea. Gl
dont blame yourself... i dont think u are only one who is wrong, cuz u said that she also flirted with other guys. if youve tried you best already. now its up to her weather she accepts it or not. ofc you shouldnt have flirted with other girls. but you cant turn back time now. most important. you have to show that u really want her to forgive you. to be honest.... if she still loves you, she will forgive you. good luck!
How long have you guys been together? Doesn't seem like it has been very long since you say she wants to give up over flirting. To be honest, she seems like the type of girl that likes to pull double-standards.
trust is important.. but if she flirts a lot, why cant you? its really unfair for guys.... lol a surprise present was a good idea, i guess you can always write a really sweet card or letter? i know some girls that dig into that =P
yea. she flirted. and she got angry at u for flirting. thats double standard. however, initially u shouldn't hav flirted. u should've gotten angry at her. and she should be in ur position right now. being sorry and everything. if she isn't, then i guess u can forget abt her. anyway, 2 wrongs doesn't make 1 right. so u shouldn't hav flirted in the first place.
