So here's the whole story. I know I might sound really stupid and clingy, after 1 night, but just hear me out, I promise I'm not obsessive or anything, just really bummed out cause nothing will probably happen. So I met this guy one night at my friends place. Basically by the end of the night we end up making out for a real long time. We also talked a little too, and he seemed like a guy I would totally fall for. When we talked I thought we had a good connection. At one point he asked me a bad question, and after he apologized which I thought was so cute. The next night there was a party for my friend's birthday, and I invited him just cause it's a party, and I really wanted to see him again. I showed up to the party first with some friends, and he showed up about a hour later with our my other friends. By that time, I already had a few drinks, and I'm really small, so I'm kind of light weight, so I was pretty buzzed by the time he got to the party. Once he showed up, I got really happy and all. I asked him he was going to drink or not, he said he was not going to drink that much because he had to do some stuff pretty early the next morning. But throughout the night, we would give pecks to each other, it was just so cute, kind of like we were a couple. Well throughout a couple hours I've been drinking more, and I got to a certain point where I started feeling dizzy and I had to sit down. So I sat down on the couch next to my friends, then some random guy came and sat next to me. Random guy starts talking to me and he's just asking how I am and stuff like that, then out of no where, he grabs my head and kisses me!! -what? I DID NOT KISS HIM, he KISSED ME, right when that happened I yanked my head out of there and yelled over to my friend sitting next to me, and she pulled me out of there before this random guy could do anything else. So of COURSE the guy I had a crush on saw, and basically when I tried to talk to him all he said was, "Don't worry about it." But when he said that he wasn't even looking at me, and he just made it seem like he didn't care what I had to say, cause I was telling him about how I did not want to kiss him at ALL, and that he attacked me. But he just seemed so careless, so I just walked away from him. Then after my friend who is friend's with the guy I have a crush on, told me that he wants to talk to me, but I was a little too drunk for him right now but he does want to talk to me. Ever since that, I basically haven't talked to him. I left him comments on facebook, and he did reply but he didn't seem to show any interest. What do you think I should do? Forget it? Or just wait things out, and see how things go? It just really sucks, because he's a really cool guy and he is my type. WOW sorry, this was a long story.
wo... that's a pretty big bummer... hahaha... if i was a guy i think i would've lost most of my interest in u... but then again if i was a guy i'd never fall for a girl that gets high on alcohol... i mean if she keeps doing this even i'd b worried that she mite end up getting raped by a random guy one day... lucky it's just a kiss this time... try keep talking to that guy... but dun make urself sound desperate... say something intellectual... or even get a mutual fd to talk to him n say something like "omg!! i can't believe that guy... poor sweet innocent bchanana... she must b so traumatized after that random guy slobbered all over her..." i must say ur chances seem pretty low now...
Hey if that guy you got a crush on is really into you, he would have been keeping an eye on you all night to make sure you're ok since u were a bit drunk!!! So he should have witnessed that random guy kissing you and come up to get rid of him to protect you!!...BUT NO....where was he?? Eyeing another girl perhaps. Did you have alcohol when you first met him too?? Is that how you guys started making out too? Girl, i reackon you should just forget about him. When a boy shows no sign of interest, there will be nothing you can do about it but just making yourself cheap and desperate for him. If I was you, I'd let it go....keep living your own happy life until he realises what he is missing out!!!! I hope you learnt your lesson there NOT to drink too much for a petite girl ....As Dawn implied, girls who over drink is never an attractive thing to men
oiii....girl...watch out with that alcohol...when u drink u should always have ppl u can trust around u so they can keep an eye on u... now he must thing u kiss with any random guy...=/... which is a total turn off... cuz yeah... if id think a guy is a party manwhore id be totally =/ too...ya know ok not saying u are one...but hey since u guys made out the first and second time... he might think u do it with everyone? try to talk to him again and tell ur friends ur side of the story... they might be able to explain to him and he might wanna talk to u..and...if he doesnt want to listen well...not much u can do then....
You have heard of dont drink and drive, now its dont drink and party cuz its bad for your health. Joke aside, best thing to do is to clarify with him what happened and have your friend that pulled you out be with you. If he doesnt seem to care anymore, its time to move on and you have learned a valuable lesson: drink moderately. In all honesty, if i was the guy, first thought that would come to my mind is that you are careless and would not be somebody i would want to have a relationship with since you made out with him on a first occasion and the next day, he sees you with another person.
wow... a one night stand...where u hang out again? hehe...lucky dude,,, if i was that dude, theguy you had a crush on, I KNOW it aint gonna happen for long term even if I date you... 2 guys in two days...sounds like you easy to me...lol... well, go get them girl.
good shit adrianc. he sees you as a slut. guys don't want a slut for ltr, just sex. best advice, don't give him some.
well everyone, thank you for thinking im an alcoholic, but basically i'm not. it was one of my really good friend's birthday and we were just having fun. the night that we met, we both were drinking, but I didn't have as much as him, he threw up that night. second, the night the random creeper guy kissed me, my 2 friends talked to him too, and both of my friends who talked to him both know that the guy i had a crush on and i had a thing for each other.
I don't think you're an alcoholic. Not so expericened, but doen't most teenages/ young adoult drink at parties etc. It wasn't as if you were drinking in daytime. Back to your problem, If he really likes you then he prob got upset by seeing that. My advice is give him some time before you sit down and talk to him again. Good Luck!
hmmm... i dont think ur an alcoholic wo! were still young and nothing wrong with drinking as long as u know how to handle all the alcohol im just tellin u to be careful.... who knows what can happen if ur really k.o... -huh SOME guys can and will take advantage of u.... the last thing u want is to wake up in someone else's room with no clothes on next to the random creeper right :S! id bitch slap the random creeper...seriously... but u say ur friends talked to the guy u like....and hes still not listening or what? hmmm...perhaps u should just let him go....?
this tells you...dont drink!!! if he really does have feelings for you he'll hear you out. even if he refuses to hear you out...he should eventualy forgive you. don't force it!
i woulda just let it go. u dunno him well enough to go thru this for him. he might be the kind of guy that makes out with gurls at each and every party. well either way, if hes interested he woulda at least give u a respond to ur messages. dun stress over it. if he doesnt bother to ask about it, mayb u should bother tellin him.
oh man...alcohol...see the effect huh? just leave him alone for a while, guys are like a ball, the more u hit, the more it will bump away.
If you really liked the guy u should have taken it slow on the first night; but since you did not and then the next night he sees you doing the same thing with another guy (even if it is forced), If I was in that guys shoes I would not haven taken you seriously. You might have a shot if your friends hang out with his friends at a place other than a party. First impression is everything and if I see a girl drinking till the point that shes buzzed two nights in a row I would think that she is an alcoholic. If he is not showing any interest, its time to move on. Hopefully this will be a learning experience, but when you do decide to drink make sure that you have eaten and make sure to drink a glass of water between your drinks.
i'm sure ppl didn't come in to just diss u n alcohol... but u gotta admit that random kiss is related to alcohol... so i guess getting tipsy in front of ur crush isn't exactly the brightest idea... besides... when alcohol starts to effect ur behaviour means it's too much for ur liver to handle... it's not good for ur body anyway... we're just concerned
Just let it rest for a bit...then try and contact him in a week or so and call him out. Hopefully by then he would understand that you're not the type of girl to just hook up with any guy at a party.
mmm, well i cannot feel what kind of guy you fall for; but getting drunk isn't a good first impression as letting your guard down on a random guy.... then reading your story i know you feel yourself guilty for getting drunk... hope that won't happend again. there may be still hope because he answer your invitation... so keep working on it and make some good impression of yourself. well let's just start with greetings maybe one day he will answer more then just a greeting.... good luck
i say if u like him, get him by the balls...lol f with him...give him some and stop and dont ...this will make him want more etc...then maybe he will like u eventually... -lol -evil laugh
