a Finish study says that most successful marriages are the ones with the male 15years older then the female. and love has NO EFFECT in the success or failure of a marriage, ooch, that hurts. Successful marriages are directly related to the WEALTH( money, money, money...sigh ) of the couple. no wonder so many divorces... now, excuse me as I find myself some place to crawl under( in a fetal position).
Having lots of money is related to how successful that person is in, life in general. Successful people are usually successful across the board. Not just in their wallet. They know how to handle their life. Thats why it shouldn't be a surprise that their successful in their marriages too.
the harder the men work the more $$ they earn, n the less time they spend with their wives therefore less arguements ... puahahahaha -bigclap -bigclap
^haha nice reasoning. I think it's partly true, because if a couple keeps arguing about money, it kinda breaks the marriage
i don't know what background the study has, but did he study only divorced families? and did he also study the different generations? babyboomers, x, and y? did he account for the change in society? I'm sure everyone has noticed that women are comming out into the work field, not only that, they're starting to make more money then men as men are taking a role as a stay at home dad. So what's this about money issues? i doubt the money issue will be too common in the younger generation, unless you mass produce babies and end up digging yourself a hole. If you don't love the person, don't marry them, simple as that, don't ruin someones life, like seriously, some people need to really think before they commit, WHY MUST YOU GET MARRIED? can't you just common law? until you're sure? or like... just yeah... stupid... but i mean i'm sure theres a lot of happy couples that marry after meeting a day or week or more, congrats, but other people really need to commit if they're going to marry. And i'm sure it's not so much money, as it might be the s_e_x in the relationship that plays a big role in the divorces. Just no one ever admits or mentions it. Good day everyone
yeah... that's easy enough to say... there're tons of ppl getting divorced everyday n somehow i doubt they'd b planning "ok i'm gonna go n file divorce in 3 yrs time" when they signed that marriage certificate...
if you guys don't know about asian families its all about [youtube]xhNmNga9_6c[/youtube] rich people try not to marry broke asses ahaha but i really do believe people who know how to manage money manage their life and relationship better
i agree that money can make or break a marriage. if you dont have money, couples are going to argue everyday. thats how i feel. no money=more problems=divorce
same could be said for more money= more hassles= divorce= pay your ex x amount of your income if you have kids
sometimes, i don't think that money is a real problem ... i'm from a poor family and my parents are living with the best they can afford ... trust, loyalty & hardworking is the main points i think that make marriage works ...