Will you ever let your gf/bf know how much you make and how much you have in your bank account? Why or why not?
I would never let my significant other know how much I have in the bank. I don't like to mix business with pleasure. How much money one has should be insignificant to a relationship, as long as you're both holding it down. I don't really care about a guy's finances. As long as he's working towards improving his situation or if he's trying his best, and as long as he treats me right, I don't care. It's one thing if he's poor, another thing if he is just unmotivated and has no ambitions.
Answer is simple: No, None of their business. If a woman asks you, tell her: "Ah ha! So the real you comes out... I knew you only wanted me for my money! " Now you can tease her as a gold digger whenever you want.
Of course not. It's something that's private to me, you know? Why would I tell a guy anyways..I could care less how much money he has, and it's never good to mix money into a relationship.
Money Money Money!! Money! You know what they say... Mo Money, Mo Problems. But really though... why the hell would you let your bf/gf know how much money you got. I mean who does that?? You don't just go, "hey baby let's watch a movie, oh by the way... I got xxx money in my bank account!?" Like WTF?? As long as your ass got money in your wallet, it doesn't matter.
i used to share,and dat is whr the problem comes out. so i wont do dat again. it's not about ur spouse,but it's yourself. wat happen if someone was chasing ur spouse,and dat person happens to earn more than u,well,wat wud u think? aha!so u see whr the problem is? money is always an issue in a relationship.
That is a NO NO, even in a mariage have a joint account, and a personal account for yourself and keep it to yourself only.
Hahaha... only because you haven't tried it. There are many reasons to not have a "share everything" policy. We warned you!!
Why have to not have a "no secrets policy"? 1) Screams Clingy ("Here's my everything, plz take me!") >.< 2) Leaves no mystery in the relationship (Yes, figuring out the other person is fun) -shock 3) Leaves you vulnerable (Do you really want your current/ex bf/gf to know you deepest and most embarassing secrets so he/she can use them against you?) -censored 4) You will be judged on those secrets ("Hi, I've worn this pair of pants 14 days straight") -cool 5) None of their business! (Nosey stalkers be gone!) -nono just to name a few...
Yea...money is always an issue in a relationship. Even in marriage, keep a seperate account for emergencies. The chances are that you'll be get a divorce one day....lol. I purposely leave my bankbook in obvious places for girl candidates to notice...I am broke. It's a good way to filter out girls that think money is a factor in a relationship. And it makes me seem like an open and honest person. And since they already think they've figured out my worth, they don't bother looking for where my real bankbooks are hidden =P
