Say you've been hanging around with these girls and you've gotten to know them on a more personal level. Now, you find them all equally attractive, but the question is how would you choose which girl to further your relationship with?? Here are some hypothetical scenarios to consider: #1. You hook up with one or more of them and try to play it smooth and not get caught. #2. You hook up with one of the girls and let the other girls know, so you can perhaps stay as friends with some of them. #3. You play it dumb and just act like you don't know anything and stay as friends with all of them so you can still enjoy their company and be able to hang out with them carefree. #4. It's pretty much the same as #3. However, you wait till one of them makes the move so it's lot easier on you. This is a question mostly for guys, but if you're a girl, I guess you can switch up the scenario. Just state if you're a female answering the question.
You really like them all equally? One doesn't have a slight upperhand or something? Well from the scenarios, #1 would usually be the bad thing to do. They all know each other right? They might end up talking and their boyfriend becomes the subject and they realize your dating them all. #2 would generally be the best thing to do. #3 if you just want to be their friends, then there not girlfriend material?
oh lemme clear it up that they don't know each other.. so it's like each girl got their own uniqueness.. they're all gf material.. but staying as friends would entitle you to see them all guilt free..
aint no easy way. u gota choose one. ya cant like em all..in the end..there can be only one..so as to quote a movie line....find the one u like best...n go for it..or do nutin and let it be...its all ur call...just if they chick or any of these chicks see u as being attractive also...so 2 seemingly a good choice....n as avant just said "Eventually, their flaws will show and you'll know who to cross off your list."
#5 Hang out with all of them, there's no need to rush into an exclusive relationship. Eventually, their flaws will show and you'll know who to cross off your list. If the girls all know each other, then let them all know that you're keeping your options open, so they know you don't mean them disrespect. If they don't understand that, then you can cross them off your list because they are obviously the jealous or controlling type.
I'd choose the one with the biggest boobs -rotfl I remember hearing a joke somewhere about a guy who was trying to decide between 3 girls to marry, where they each had a list of merits. In the end, the guy couldn't choose and decided to go for the one with the biggest boobs. -lol But jokes aside....I would probably choose #4. If you can't choose between them, then take the easy route, and let them do the choosing instead. Once you get with that girl you can procede with #2. #1 is a definite no-no -nono Sounds like some selfish, greedy, jack@ss playboy.
hahahhaa.. at first I was like wtf.. Knock predicting the future?? then I realized Avant posted after... -lol yea well option 3 is pretty much like your option 5... downside to that is.. you don't act on the situation.. they all might jus leave.. act to hastely n well you kno the deal.
if u in a hurry pick....if not...just let the shit roll and pay attention how things develop with each of em..
Very different. Your option 3 is to stay friends and do nothing. I'm telling you to have relationships with them all, but let them know that you're not looking for an exclusive relationship yet. What this means? All the +, none of the -... actually, it might hurt your wallet and PA time more...
Oh should I clarify that uhh.. I'm not asking for myself.. -whistle.. so uhh no need to direct everything towards me...
Force of habit, I apologize for that, just change the "you" part with the appropriate title. If he doesn't PA, then less consequences
Yea.. #2 would essentially be the right thing.. but what if you can't choose.. and indecisive.. then you're like struggling between #2-#4... What if you're eyeing this girl who you don't even know.. but the other girls does show interest in you.. I guess it comes down to.. you liking them all.. but picking one might lose your chances of seeing the rest... but you don't want to be an ass and pick all of them and "play with fire.." -devil.. -lol
Depends on how old you are. Are you ready to settle down?(not directing this at you) I say if your like 25 and younger date around, you'll learn some valuable lessons when you decide to get serious. 1#!!!