Well all I can say is, my best mate is going out with the lad I fancy, I feel like I have no chance of EVER going to go out with him :/ She's really pretty and skinny , and I feel like I'm just some fat chinese girl, that no one would like :( I feel really down at the moment and well.. I don't know what to do ... Those two only started going out today but all I've been doing was telling my best mate that those two really look good together and all that. I really do mean it but inside I feel really really jealous ... But the thing is ... only two or three people know that I fancy him and she doesn't know that I like him. I don't want to break them up but I feel really jealous and really down in the dumps :'[ Some one please help me ...
i think you should let him go..not because she's pretty and you THINK you're not but because she's your best friend... Between,did you know the guy before your friend knew him??
so,you have a crushed on him first?you gonna have to explain how your friend is dating him...and please give more info. Do you think he feel something for you?Jealousy is an emotion that may or may not help you... As your friend just started dating him,you can always tell her your feeling towards him before it goes deep between them...
You should've made the first move, since you didn’t it is your loss. When did you want to make the first move, you can't wait for ever.... real life doesn't always goes like those Asian drama's. But from your story, I can conclude you have a low self-esteem, and therefore I don’t think you would make the first step. You need to fix that somehow. (And who made the first move, your friend or him?) But on the other hand, if it didn’t work out with you and him. The relationship between your friend would be awkward, since she is dating your ex. All you can do wait until their date is over, and hear her story about the date. But how are you supposed to feel if their date went well, would you be happy or sad? Since she is your best mate, all that you can do is let him go and be happy for them (if the date went well).
does your lad and your bf on PA? then.... tsk. but I know the feeling... I think instead of being jealous and stuff, or pretend to be rooting for them, you should just be contend with yourself and being you... I am a guy, and before was in a similar situation like you. School, college, study, and That depressing / jealous stuff really got me sick for almost a year... and during that time, I cherish my health a lot... and everyday I wake up feeling well, I smile, "that is enough for me to make me happy" Enjoy your life.... should love yourself.. and not be bog down with love/jealousy.. Maybe you wil eventualy have a right love one
awww... a crush so cute but then all i will say is that YOU ARE YOUNG!! there are PLENTy OF GUYS out there that will be miles better than him that's all i can help you with ^^
hey... if u roll up that browser u'll probably find an add called plentyoffish.com... need i say more?? if dun like the way u look... go exercising n lose some weight... they guy won't come back if u just sit here feeling sorry for urself... if u make a change i'm sure there'll b lots of nice lads queing up to b with u
work out, lose weight and get the Susan Boyle makeover. Go from chubby chinese girl to sexy chinese girl. Just gotta give him the yellow fever, once he's interested he'll be infected forever.
In my opinion you should just move on. If you really liked him you should have gone for it earlier and done something. Every person for their own. Since you didn't win this time then you should just take this loss as a lesson to do better. And if anything, I hope you are not going to make anyone feel bad or anything because even if you end up breaking them up... he likes her and not you and he would not choose you. Your situation reminds me of that movie "Basic Love" with Elanne Kong and Janice Man. If you were a true friend you would just hope for them to be happy. Sure, you would be sad for a while by yourself... but why be selfish and make everyone else unhappy too?
lols...let me get to the point and cut the crap. don't ruin your friendship over "a" guy because there are more of us good looking guys around. Don't compliment them anymore because you are decievig your friend and the lad you fancy lols.
forget about this guy... but work on your self esteem... that's most important!!! and do not always wait till the first move of a guy... if you like him, just let him know... but yeahhh... that's your self esteem part. Good luck girl!
girl, if you think like that about yourself, you never gonna get any guy... aslike it works the same with man, do you wanna date a guy who thinks his noithing about himself? start working on your self esteem then start playing guys around like toys ^.^
You missed your boat. Yes, agreed with everyone here..."work on your self esteem!" If he was meant to be, then he will come back, or you might catch a better one. At least you learned a lesson, whenever you meet someone you "fancy" again, make sure that you let him know it asap. Life is too short, don't live with regrets.
