Of course it does exist (still) maybe the current generation aren't following this religious rule but now people save for the "one" the one who they are going ot spend the rest of their lives with once married
^what baout..not seeing this as a religious rule but rather a personal preference? but this is a rare pratice consider how colorful this world is nowadays
^ But what happen if you don't find one? Stuck as virgin for life? Might as well go out and go for the experience
is there an award for that? like jing jit pai fong lol i thought ure only talkin about Christians. someone's new avy is very tempting...bottom rite reads 'nikutama', niku is meat...
I agree with this part. I watch Big Boys Club and most of them says they regret having sex before marriage or something like that. But i guess again as ang said, temptation is a bitch. See how you handle it.
These days it's better to have some experiences, if you had sex the first time (guys) you remembered that quick draw... There are still a lot of virgins out there, many of them just don't talk about it cause it's embarrassing for guys any ways, girls will have better control of themselves cause they know they have more to lose. But given the opportunity and the right situation, I think most people will do it. No sex before marriage takes a lot of commitment and trust. There are just too much temptations going out there in the world these days which makes it almost impossible not to have sex before marriage.
Yes temptation is a bitch, but there is frustration when you regret. If you manage to hold that urge, good job to you. I agree, it is 2010, many as youngsters as young as 10 are already pimping out the girls, thus making it harder to find a virgin girl/boy when you reach your 20s and that sucks as they have given their precious first time. The first time is important, it is something to remember, you wouldn't love to scar your memory by having sex with someone you don't even like, especially one that had sex many times, they probably even use females as a sex tool. Who knows.
lol I think a lot of people are saying they're saving it for marriage to cover the fact that they just can't get any.
ohhhh shieeeettttt.. LOOOL. TBH, i never thought of that . But you can always be bad and go to a prostitute.. right?
lol, don't get me wrong. I'm not saying everyone is like that. just that some people I know keep mentioning how they won't have sex because they want to save it for marriage~ when it is very obvious they reason why they're not having sex is because they are.. err.. LOL and they keep mentioning it by themselves.. it's not like anyone questions them about their sex life caught
Keep mentioning by themselves.. as in.. randomly saying "Oh, i'm not gonna have sex until i get married".. when like.. you guys were talkign about sports or something? LOOL Sex before marriage is okay i guess.. but be safe Shouldn't force yourself to marry someone cuz you & your partner have a baby together..