Open Dating

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Jan 21, 2008.

  1. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    Would you ever date more than one person at once?

    Would you ever date someone who is dating more than one person at once?

    If so, how do you feel if you really like that person
     
  2. tiffer858

    tiffer858 Well-Known Member

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    no way casue that would make you a player
     
  3. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    how about when it's not like your purposefully looking for a bunch of people to have relationshpis with


    but you are trying out different people in hopes to find one potential to spend a little more time with
     
  4. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    i think i'd like to stick with one person at a time ...
    if i wanted to try it out with other people, that would probably mean i'm not satisfied .. so i'd probably break up with him right?
     
  5. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    hmmm not quite the senerio i was thinking of

    like i was watching tv, and this girl went on 30 first dates within half a year
     
  6. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    hmm well i think i'm just a one-guy kind of girl
    because if i go out with someone, it's probably going to be exclusive anyways
     
  7. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    so no casual dating for you?
     
  8. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    probably not. i don't think i'd feel comfortable with the idea of being with more than one guy at a time ...
     
  9. nah not for me.

    how about you?
     
  10. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Nop to all of your questions. IMO, its like stepping on two boats and all three persons will bound to get hurt. Its like playing with dynamite...
     
  11. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    hmmm, I'm not too like sure actually lol.
    I guess, dating part seems nice, I mean you can go on a date with someone to see if there is any connection, if not then move on.
    I dnoo.....I think after being kicked in the face when in a commited relationship, it got me thinking how i wouldn't want to be hurt like that again, but i do miss the dating part, you know go out to a movie and a meal or something...
    It's kinda like going out with a friend, but with the possibility of something sparking...
    But dating too many at once at the same time...no....bad idea...
     
  12. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    Yeah i would if i wasn't looking for any committment in r/s. I've been in a situation where we both said we were allowed to see other people if we wanted to, but that never happened.

    I guess it really comes down to what you want, if its just casual dating then most people would be ok with it i guess.
     
  13. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    Emmm? well...i dunt think i would...but i mite like another person
    the same time im dating a guy...thats y i dunt date...hahah
     
  14. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    no way. could never do it. one person and one person only.
     
  15. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    i don't like open relationships.........but i also cannot commit to one girl lol
     
  16. dating as in steady dating or casual dating??
     
  17. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    steadily having casual dates? :p
     
  18. in that case i think it's ok for guys... as long as it's only something simple like a dinner or movie... nothing intimate involved...

    but for me personally no... i'm emotion-centric... dating different ppl would confuse me n i end up not sure how i feel abt the guys or wot i'm looking for... i try to avoid spending time alone with a guy unless i'm planning to go further...
     
  19. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol this never works, in the end someone finds outs and someone is gunna leave =P even though u prob dont love them and only play with them but , being a player isnt that fun =P coz people always leave u =(
    People should be more 尊一 in relationships
     
  20. but casual dating isn't relationship wor...