There's no problem liking her if you are never going to try to grab her. NEVER being the operative word here, even if your friend broke up with her, you SHOULD NOT persue a relationship with her if you treasure your friendship with your friend. But then, it always depends on how much you like the girl... But being a snitch is not a desirable reputation =_=b
Hiake is right, if they are very close friends it's ok to like her, but that's as far as it should go, your gf's friend is off limits; you don't want to ruin their friendship. However if they aren't close friends, maybe it will be ok, if/after you break up--but not right away.
hiake, guess you kinda misunderstood.. From your reply, it appears more like the qn was: "Is it bad to like my fren's gf?" back to topic: I suppose you are still with ur gf.. and is falling for her fren. Rite? So you are asking whether you should break up and go for her fren? Its tough really.. like Duch says.. even if you break up, you will still affect their friendship somehow. Moreover, will her fren accept you?
@XJ: You are right... I totally misread it =_=b I just have all kinds of problems with internet shorthands But back on topic, if you like your girlfriend's friend, break up. Don't hurt your current girlfriend. Beware that it is not the same as saying "break up and chase after the girl you like", as a gentlement (and decent human being in general), you should not pursue the girl until your girlfriend has settled once again. You two can be friends, but if you two develop a relationship your to-be-ex-girlfriend will begrudge you both... So yeah, do damage control on the current relationship, then wait and see.
Oh this is going to get nasty. If the gf's friend like u as well, then you could cost a friendship between them (if your gf is not so generous and open-minded type). Otherwise, you'll lose both of them. First thing u must do is break up with ur gf!
You might not even like her, it could just be infatuation, don't confuse that with actual feelings. Make sure before you do something silly.
btw.. to answer your qn at face value, it is never bad to like someone.. its more of how you handle the feeling afterwards that matters.. So dun feel guilty of your own emotions..
see see no touch..... if u dont want ur hands chopped off-bash -bash -bash i suggest u not persue.....and most importantly do not tell ur girlfriend anything of the sort!!!!!!!-noclue ........but hay if ur gf ever wants to try a 3 way..... at least ull have someone to suggest to ur gf....-smileb
well if you're liking another girl other than your gf, then you shouldn't be with your gf. you can't really have both unless you cheat which is wrong.
lolz well its not "bad" so long as nothing happens =) plus, wateva happens happens.... can always just say it was fate
If you "like" her friend better than your own gf, then break up with your gf and pursue. One of 2 things will happen: (1) she likes you enough to jeopardize her friendship with your gf & start dating you, or (2) she values her friendship with your gf & reject you; in which case you will have neither girl. Big risk with a big payoff, but also with a painful price to pay if you loose. If you don't have feelings for your gf anymore, then I would do it. Why waste time on a relationship you don't feel will work when you can pursue a potentially even better one?
some of the suggetions are very useful. You have to decide what to do. Are you still with your gf and plan to dump your current gf for your gf's friend? I wouldn't recommend it. It is a no no. Yes. I agree with the statement with walking on thin air. I agree with you ribsandbbqbeef but dating your girlfriend's friend is just out of the question. Isn't there someone else out there for you instead your friend's friend. If you do start a relationship with your gf's friend, you will lose a friend or you will lose both of them. Good luck to you.
lol hookin' it up fa sho... it's like why even bother leaving the one your with and pursue another one whom you don't even know if it will work out..
