so you know that girls are looked down upon if they get knocked up they are looked less down upon if they decide to get married what if you get knocked up while engaged? do you think those girls are looked down upon this popped into my head while i was dreaming last night getting pregnet a month before a wedding in my dream i was more frantic i wouldn't be able to fit into my wedding dress HA HA HA
An ex-colleague of mine once said that she was thinking abt being pregnant AND giving birth first... then get married so that she doesn't have to slim down before the wedding and after the childbirth as well... lol. Neway; personally I would prefer to get pregnant after some honeymoon time with my hubby. Prolly 1-2 years would do.
In my opinion, it depends really. If everybody (your friends, family, relatives, etc.) knows that the two individuals are engaged and are going to marry in an upcoming time, then getting "knocked up" a little early doesn't matter. On the other hand, if no one knows that the two individuals are getting engaged or even set a marriage date yet, then it would be a problem. Marriage, engagement and "getting knocked up" should be mixed together and told to all close ones, everyone should be happy for you if you are open to it. If you hide your pregnancy, marriage date or engagement, it's a no-brainer that everyone will look down on the couple, not only the female.
OKay... but if it's strictly unintentional we're talking about; then the question of 'perfect time' for it to happen won't even have an answer right? What I am saying is that I wouldn't mind getting knocked up when I am married and preferably after the honeymoon period so that's my perfect time.
LMAO!!!... Well.. it really depends on the situation.. And I agree with what's been said lol.. Soo this is my way of saying I second that!-^_^
