Has anyone here fallen for a player before? I don't know if he's cheated on any of his past girlfriends but I know that he checks out a lot of girls. He checked me out too.......but other than that he's been so nice to me that I might be falling for him. Has anyone in here been in love with a... I don't know, it's not exactly a player because players cheat on their girlfriends right? --let's just say a playboy wannabe..anyone? And if so, is it possible to make him faithful to you?
I'm not a playa I just crush a lot..-whistle I love from butter pecan to blackberry molass' I don't discriminate, I regulate every shade of that ass -whistle Lol... anyways I believe their was another thread about this.. "I'm in love with a player.." err somethin like that. but whats up with you girls and your player encounters... LOL.
LOL Man, Yeh man i'm the same too, i check out bare girls. I'm not a player though-nono, i never play with a girl. Well, i might play with those stupid girls who are willing to do anything for me, anyway as i was saying i only check out fit girls!
i'm in love wit a strippper..... lalala don't mind that lol stay away from him your just asking your heart to be broken into a million peices.
Because they are doing something right which makes women go nuts over them. But it's not all loss, there are some of us with this power that chooses to stay on the light side tho. -innocent
lol just wtf is that suppose to mean... oh and ipepsi... you too huh?? what's her name? lol. Cross over to the dark side AVANT -evil... pwhahaha... girls just wanna tame us bad boys with a bomb in our hands... lol.
If a hot guy walks by, don't tell me your eyes wouldn't wander. When you see something attractive, you will, naturally, look at it a bit more... the same applies to both guys and girls. So, if a guy checks out other girls, it doesn't necessarily mean that he has commitment issues. But, even if he doesn't have commitment issues, if he goes and checks out girls in front of you, then he has respect issues, which makes him an unworthy character nonetheless. You girls need to feel a bit more secure about yourselves. There's obviously something attractive about yourself for you to be able to get the guy... so stop scaring him off with your insecurities! And it's not true with the "once a player, always a player". Because at one point in your life, you will end up settling down and appreciating what you have.
Hah easy for someone as pretty as you to say shy. I saw your pic in that one other thread. -_-2 It's a lot easier for the more pretty looking girls to have confidence in themself then it is for the average looking ones. But I agree with you on the whole respect issue though.
I'm curious as to how you know she's pretty? Only PART pic I've seen of shy is from Howie's Avatar... where the picture is taken at a weird angle and you can't even see her face... But anyways, confidence comes from within, not from your outer appearance. I know pretty girls that are very sensitive and self conscious about their looks because everyone EXPECTS them to look amazing. Actually, many have very little self-confidence because they are always seeking for other peoples approval (to tell them how hot they are, to cater to them, to hit on them, etc).
Long as you show class, and pass my test Fat ass n breasts, highly intelligent bachlorettes -whistle Can't you see what Big Pun was trying to say... Ok forget about the fat breasts. Girls gotta show class and be intelligent and naturally she'll attract the guys... Ok I just realize this ain't the flat chest thread... but you see how it all RELATES!! In the hot tub, poppin' bubb-ly Rubbin' your spot love, got you screamin Punish me... -whistle -lol
-rolleyes seriously. I mean she is (or was) an import model afterall. Models have guys around them all the time! And even though we couldn't really see her face, we at least know she has a nice body otherwise she wouldn't be a model. >.< Ugh...there goes my self-esteem...lol j/k hahah...but yeah, I wouldn't risk dating a player. Sure, sometimes they don't have ulterior motives, but what are the chances of that exactly?
Why are you putting yourself down when others aren’t even doing that? You have to love yourself before you want anybody else to love you. It's hard to be confident in yourself if you don't respect yourself. Confidence is reflected upon your actions, not looks. A lot of girls lack self-esteem because they are under the mentality that some people are better than others. Reality is that people are just different, not better. Everyone is equal and unique in his/her own way. Looks are not important when it comes to confidence. You don't need to "look" like a model to be beautiful or feel confident. Being cool and trendy isn't a way to feel better about yourself either. A girl may be dressed in thrift store specials and still be gorgeous. So, have a little more faith in yourself! Remember that beauty is all in the eye of the beholder. You may think of yourself as being average or ugly, but others may think you’re pretty. In the end, it’s really what’s on the inside that counts. You have to have enough confidence in yourself to know that the guy won't cheat on you & will be good to you. If you walk into the relationship already expecting that they guy's gonna play you, then it'll just be a self-fulfilled prophecy.
Don't assume anything. Have you been to import shows? Sure, some a good looking and some are good looking, but some I wouldn't touch with a 10 ft pole... Honest! From my experience at shows with what I've seen, some think they have more than they really do. It is SELF-esteem, not esteem that one builds from comparing herself to others. Be the best you know how to be, always strive to be a better person, acknowledge your faults and set goals to overcome them. You'll come out ahead this way, trust me P.S. And PLEASE, someone let the bad import models know that I DO NOT WANT TO SMELL THEIR MAKE UP 5FT AWAY FROM THEM! THAT MEANS THERE'S TOO MUCH!!!
lol ya know after reading a lotta the posts... most of it just strays away from the question.. have you ever loved a player... shouldn't all this self-esteem talk go back to the flat chest thread...??
players are players because girls attracts girls its curiousity when u see some girls with a guy u will start to think wut is tat guy is doin to attract so much girls and the person becomes attract to him as well because every girl wants a piece of him do u guys no wut i mean
I used to be a player so let me tell you something about player. Is either they play but if when they really in love with you it will only be you unless you call for the quit. So it is up to you whether you willing to take the risk or not. To me nothing wrong with player and sometimes is not player just we dont find the right person so we have to keep on looking till the one appears. Remember noone is perfect and player can get hurt too. It is just whether thats your the other half. Good Luck. Keep us updated if you had decided what to do . All the best.
ehhh -sweat thanks for all the words of encouragement guys. I feel much better now. and Ginero of course I will keep you guys updated on what happens!
im so attractive to the player type, i dont know why. i like bad boy. hahaha but i never dated a player type. so no worries.
