Professional guys -- problems meeting girls

I'm 20, currently an underwriter for an XXX insurance company. Basically, I work 9-5, M-F, and I don't come into contact with many available girls anymore. The last relationship I was involved in turned out to be a total disaster and I'd rather not get into any details. (Although I posted about it here before)

Anyhow, do any of you guys/girls got suggestions?

 

If you're looking for suggestions of places to meet women, then you're doing the right step by doing something about it. Even if it's small like asking here

You still in school? If not, and want to... get back in. Lots of people at Universities.

If you don't like the school scene, start doing things to improve your life. Like running? Do some marathons or something... Want to give art a try? Go to an art gallery... think of the type of girl you'd like to meet and go there. If you're actually interested in the subject as well, you'll just have so much more to talk about.

 

go wit ur interests. if u want a good relationship, find someone dat liks wut u do, she may not be the same as u, but some common ground is good. go to the mall more, u'll see dat dere r lots of ppl to get to know. if u like books, go to a book store, find an excuse to talk to a girl like ask where dis book is or sumthin. or if u like sports like tennis, find a friend or go by urself to a tennis court and play and chek out the girls n maybe play some 1 on 1

 

what about hook up from friends, or co-workers friends.

 

The problem is that you're an underwriter. -lol

But for you to meet girls, you need to go OUT! 9-5 aren't long hours. Like driver2250 said, go out w/your friends and get your friends to hook you up with their friends. Go out w/some of your coworkers and have them invite their friends out for you to meet. It's bound to work!

I wouldn't advise hooking up with any of your co-workers though..because if things were to go bust, it'd be really awkward.

 

oh my god.....you're 20...go out and get as much poon as you can and don't get a girlfriend or relationship.....party as much as you can and worry about it when you're about 28-30....i married at 28 and kinda wish i waited till 30 to chill a little longer...now 1 kid and one any day now....

 

hey man u still got loads of time left, anyway it's hard for u to get a girl cuz u're an underwriter. hey if u wnt to meet some girls i suggest u to go to night clubs on the weekends, and when u see a girl u like, just go and flirt with her!

 

yeah, i'd suggest going out more. Since you're working from 9-5 I'm assuming that you're no longer in school..so like Avant said, it's not too late to go back...so many people there to meet!

 

Listen to these people. They know what they're talking about. Good suggestions everyone. You are still young, get out and enjoy what women there are out there. They are everywhere. Going to supermarket never hurt. Go to the produce section. Women tend to shop there a lot. That is what I found out.

 

i hear girls dont like getting picked up at clubs, i unno. maybe im wrong?

 

Most of the time women don't like to be picked up at clubs. Stupid place to hook up with them. Once in awhile it will work, but mostly nada.

 

It's not that they don't like getting picked up... in fact they expect it. However, because of this expectation, they put their guards up and set their standards really high so unless you're good, you're generally not getting far.

 

Just like everyone said, go out and meet the girls. A lot of people work 8+ hours a day, yet it all comes down to if you want to go out after you get off work. Since you're only 20, that limits you to under 21 clubs, but theres other places to find girls to hook up with. Perhaps, if you want, take a night class at a local community college.

 

LOL

check out aisle number 3..the cosmetic and beauty supply. If u fail there, then check the register girls. The good part about register girls is that u get to know their names without asking them! LOL

 

Thanks for the suggestions, everyone. Will take them all into consideration.

Oh, and I've tried clubbing from time and time, but I simply hate it....It's 100% superficial. Plus, the girls that frequent clubs are not the type that I'd usually go for.

That, and I can't dance for squat. I usually just stand around and drink..and well...that's pretty ghetto. -rolleyes

 

party will surely be a great idea, but not the kind of girl ur looking for i guess

 

be cool man..... let it come naturally ... whilst still making some efforts...

 

just explore...don't be afraid to try new things...and before you know it, you're there! and most importantly, lower your expectations...goodluck to you!