Lets say a hot looking (std free) girl/woman wants to have s3x with you but you already have a girlfriend. If you had the chance, will you do it with this girl if (key word: IF) you were given the gaurantee that your girlfriend will never find out? *It's only a one night stand. Your girlfriend will never find out about the s3x part but whether you choose to continue to see that other girl is up to you.
I would say definitely not because the guilt would eat you alive. But how many guys can actually say no to an offer like that? In fact how many girls can say no to that? It's tough.
...Its really dissapointing for anyone to take that offer. Being in a relationship is supposed to be honest. If one did took that offer, he must be sexually deprived. The guilt will follow you for life also. This is the problem with letting people babysit your pets, how do you know if it will be abused by a desperate individual, lol.
See guys... you gotta first ask for permission and then an invitation.... -bigsmile... Oh and I would prolly do it... if the girlfriend deserves it.... -devil PS: holy cow... almost 2k post.... where does the time go....
Yeah get in staight with that grl init, nah i was only joking. I wouldn't even do that cause i'll always have to carry the guilt of doing that around me.
It wouldn't be guilt for me. When someone becomes my gf (meaning we're exclusive), there's a hidden promise in there that I will stay loyal, so I would refuse the offer to maintain my integrity.
wow such a wholesome guy... don't make the rest of us look bad now -lol. but remember this... even tofu can make one choke... -what?
-lol Nah, I'm just driven by a different philosophy. As long as the reason is backed by a good clear conscience, I don't see how I'd be more wholesome than anyone else (even if he chose the to do it with the women). So chew carefully. -confucious <--- need a smiley for that, haha.
it seems that most of the guys here aint that honest!! the title says be honest!! it's easy to say that u will stay loyal, feel guilty but how many of us guys that actually can refuse a temptation?? wat if the gurl is super hot?? i would be honest and say i will most probably go for it but watever happens after that i wouldn't know!!
bottom line girls always find out. haha this is what happened to me. i dont think i'll ever do it again. maybe. but yea, if the girlfriend doesn't kill you, guilt will. i had this dark cloud that hung over me for 1 year before she found out. now we're just friends.