i've been with my girlfriend for a month already. before we started, she specifically told me no sex, and she said that she'll break up with me if i ever ask for sex. every time we make out, i always stop myself before i enter her pants, fearing that i'll not be able to stop myself. the problem is this, i cant sleep after getting high, is watching porn considered cheating? sorry im only 18, and i live in a quite conservative society, though i myself have been in sexual relationships before, which my girlfriend knows about
You should make her in the mood for it and you can try to make your move. At least its better than blatantly asking her to let you get into her pants.
puahahaha... damn... n no here's another female saying: watching porn is not cheating... if she doesnt put out...whats a guy to do lol... ur young n u got ur needs... at least ur not pushing her to have sex with u (which u definitely shouldnt!) i dont really get what it is with girls thinking that it is... they must be very insecure or something...
Play her game matey! Show zero affection, push her away when she kisses or hugs you! Just basically no pyhsical contact... Then when you get asked why explain to her that there isnt a problem, until she gets really pushy about it, and just tell her that you are respecting her wishes, but its difficult to get all aroused all the time and not being able to finish off, so you just get fustrated!!! And just say you hope she can respect you as much as you respect her! End of the day you'll either get it or you wont, but at least you wont put yourself thur all this! But TBH, maybe you need to think is she the right one for you!!! I mean you obviously want different thing!
If she doesnt want sex, then respect her for it or just dump her lol. She told you from the beginning. What else can you really do?
yea, great advice. im not gonna touch her at all and see how she feels lol. and btw, now she gets on my nerve trying to pick up fights by keep mentioning im not a virgin and all
I dont get it. If she says no sex, then it's fine, but like that would be up to the guy to decide whether he wants to push forward or respect her for her decision. But then threatening by saying if you ask for sex she'll break up with you? thats a bit overboard dont you think? like i dont want to offend you in any way but if the girl trusts the guy, then it's up to the guy to respect her choice.
Unless no sex is not a problem for you (which it obviously is), it seems like you guys aren't that compatible. But if you truly care for her, continue to respect her, but also communicate to her how you feel.
well the answer is no its not considered cheating but heres a more serious detail... BLUE BALLS! blueballs is deadly and shouldn't be taken lightly... Blue Balls is when blood rushes to your 小弟弟 and stays there with no release and when blood runs low on Oxygen it turns purplish/blue hence blueballs... so picture yourself holding your breath till you turn blue *cyanosis*, not healthy to yourself, which means holding your 小弟弟's breath is not healthy either... Blue is no good... and word of advice... when u are ready to ask for sex... ask with your mouth but not with your words... I find it 95% chance successful with kissing and playing with the ears of the ladies... they usually give in after a while... don't lose Faith! GL!
